Pretending to like someone, I think
It's cute that you're already feeling the "honeymoon" feelings, but I think you should talk to her and go at her pace so she feels comfortable too. If you're feeling bummed, try self-care first and don't feel pressured too much to be super attached. Maybe set goals and keep it consensual, like hand holding, then hugging, etc.
Try also looking at queerplatonic relationships or I heard platonic marriage exists.
It’s ok. You could be aro or ace. You just could express and feel love differently. Express your boundaries but make sure she also feels loved, respects your boundaries, and expresses hers too. Also, I doubt you’re ready to put a ring on her finger yet.
Communicate with her if it really bothers you, but this sounds healthy to me. Don't overthink, you don't have to text 24/7. As long as she communicates with you, IRL, that's fine. I'm sure she's not ignoring you, BTW, I think she's just a napper. Some people are nappers, they like taking naps :)
Congrats on the girlfriend. I'm happy for you <33
Minecraft is a cool game, but I think you need to communicate with her more. Otherwise, the relationship won't last. As someone with a girlfriend who LOVES Minecraft, I still make time for her. I feel like you should not treat her as "just a person" if she's your girlfriend either.
Communicate with her, tell her you love her but get distracted easily. Don't gaslight her or anything like that or make some lame excuse.
You can also ask for a casual relationship and remind her you care. You should still make sure you care about her and that this relationship is something you want because you love her, not because you want a girlfriend.
Also, text her maybe when you want to play a game so she knows or talk about how you still care and try to slowly wean off the games. Sometimes is okay, but don't make it all you do.
Text her!!!!!
YTA, btw.
THAT COUNSELOR IS A TYPICAL CONSERVATIVE!!!!!!!!!!
She should not be working in this school, what the actual hell??? This sounds like manipulation/gaslighting, why isn't this woman fired already...
I was 5 when I had a wheezing fit running around at recess and noticeably couldn't run as fast as the other kids. I told a teacher, she asked me if I had asthma. I said no because I didn't know at the time, and told my parents "The teacher thinks I have asthma". We went to the doctor and he gave me an inhaler, that's all I remember.
This is just ableism... What the hell... He can't choose being socially awkward nor being in special education. Why on Earth would you do this to someone...?
Don't worry! I'm sure she just thinks it's too soon in the relationship. Only be concerned when she starts going all out then like pulling away, like another user said.