[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

I'll upvote again.

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Time is the coin of your Life.

It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent.

Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you.

And when you spend it, spend it wisely so that you get the most for your expenditure.

~Carl Sandburg

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

About names: My lastname was changed on my great grandfather in a unique way. My fullname (and my son's) is globally unique - and rather long. I had considered changing it, but I already have to sign a lot of name affidavits whenever a legal or financial issue comes up.

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

Rough patch.

My wife is going through chemo for colon cancer. Prognosis looks good. But the treatment is hell. Halfway through next week.

Her aunt lives with us. She has Parkinsons. Starting to really slide. Needs bathroom help every 2 hours - 24x7x365. No one sleeps much here. She'll need to go into assisted living real soon now. Will she live longer than her money? Maybe.

My kid is 14. Good kid. Smart. Well-intentioned. But 14 is hard. And he's a total slacker.

My mom just had gallbladder surgery at 80. She's recovering well. But lives on her own and needs extra attention. We all worry she will need to go into assisted living, too. But she's mostly broke. Not good.

The place I work was bought out a few months ago. My job is likely safe through the end of the year. But after that... well, we all know how it usually goes. At least my wife's chemo will be covered until then.

I'm over 60 and overweight with HBP. No heart attack... yet. But that can't be too far off.

So... plenty of pressure all around. But I manage to keep to the Stoics' philosophy and accept the world as it is. Be patient and kind and let things happen as they happen. I keep trying to loose weight.

Either we get through this, or we don't. But I can easily accept that we all did our best.

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

And Steve Irwin.

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

I was on long bay in Tortola in 1999 for Lenny. Beachfront cabins. Sounded like a freight train just out the door. 75-mile-an-hour coconuts were a hazard. We had no Internet, phones were out. Similarly surreal, though. Water was scarce, and milk was unobtainable, but rum was super cheap and plentiful - so we had it on our cornflakes.

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago

That's how I make sure I'm dreaming - I look for anything written. Written words in dreams are always changing and illegible.

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

That assumes a normal distribution. Wealth/income is not. An excellent resource is: Social Stratification in the United States: The American Profile Poster of Who Owns What, Who Makes How Much, and Who Works Where https://a.co/d/09LVTyYi

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

I think you mean TST.

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago

I'd love to hear them. Does anyone have a sample of the kind of music they would have played?

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 9 points 6 months ago

I have two.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/1981_Brink%27s_robbery Summary: an armored car was robbed by desperate "most-wanted" types. Bug national new.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gilchrest_Road,_New_York,_crossing_accident Summary: school bus full of kids hit by a train. The reason why "this vehicle stops at all rr crossings" is a thing.

[-] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 9 points 8 months ago

Yup. The scouts seem to be organizing a vigil this week. Looks like the whole town is gonna go.

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