Well fuck. I really liked her. Lemmie know if you find it.

But poor people don't have time for a social circle! /s

A lot of these are AAVE and have been around for ages in the Black community.

Gonna have to call out the misogyny of calling someone a "pussy".

Can you explain what it means to look and act male? And why you don't like having people ask yours?

I'm pissed off, but unsurprised. I've been seeing this same shit throughout the western white left since I became a leftist.

I'm thinking they meant gender affirmation surgery, and got their terms mixed up.

I've had it done to me before I started using she/they with the intent of refusing to accept that I'm a "real woman". It tends to be used as a way to refuse to use someone's correct pronouns, and instead handwave their identity as unimportant, but the lib still gets to feel progressive. Imo it's only proper to use they/them as a default when you have no way of knowing someone's pronouns.

I would like to know what "own words and reports" you're referring to.