what if roux fucks around and discovers a found family of neurodivergent queers who accept and love them for who they are with all the complexities therein?
(haha jk...unless??)
memes & half-jokes aside this is good shit! keep going out and meeting cool new people m8 
all i know is watch the VVitch, listen knifepoint horror, love my homies, and lie
Most recent attempt at a relaysh sapped a lot of that energy, loverboy portion of my brain put into hibernation for the first time in a long time. That shit is a lot of someone to take on...
In my watch movies, listen to audiodrama, journal, & kick it with the homies era
I try not to bully people IRL the way i do online
fwiw this is a positive, prosocial instinct. unlike online, reaching & moving ppl irl involves a lot of patience & meeting ppl where they're at. if someone comes at you hot/aggressive a little self-defense counterbullying is fine tho ofc
yeah with a wound that raw it definitely does read to me like a period of space is warranted. it's going to suck horribly for a while but imo it's the fastest way to heal to a reasonably stable baseline. especially if she's moving on faster than you, being exposed to that repeatedly while your heart is still bleeding is just going to claw at the wound.
i hope you can find a bit of peace sooner than later my friend, keep your head up
I personally think there are very few universal rules when it comes to love & friendship, so I can't really give concrete advice. But I do think - as a strong rule of thumb - that taking space from an ex partner (with low-to-no contact) before trying to be friends is generally wise. The pain of heartache doesn't create a stable foundation for friendship, and if you're yearning too intensely for someone - even if you genuinely want to engage the friendship in good faith - ulterior motives/desires can often leak out of the subconscious (i.e. hoping the person comes around to romantic reconciliation). It takes very strong internal boundaries to work around this kind of thing.
Every situation is different, though, and I don't know enough about yours to say for sure. But godspeed whatever your path to healing is, break ups suck shit, grief is a fuck 
betraying the intent of its new account name, the creature wanders out into the wild darkness...to post...
spoiler
soup /hex/??
Do something true. Say something earnest. Go ahead tell your family and friends you love them
Wait, fucking really??? All that loserposting i've done across 4-6 accounts is just etched deep into the internet?? Would have rethought my use of this site across the years if I knew that...
Ah well, guess from now on I'll just try to honor the name of this new account and live as a digital ghost in the background. We had some good times while they lasted, hexbear 
ive been somewhat treating it like it's spooky season since it got unseasonably cool end of august
s/o to the chapobears who mentioned knifepoint horror on here, i've been running low on new-to-me horror films that are worth watching for quite a while now so having an extensive library of stories to get through in a new medium has been vibes