A "paradoxymoron" if you will, emphasis on the moron.
I've been reading way too many historical novels, because I read "called on" and thought, oh that's nice of them to visit them after what they went through. 🤦
Well, it's easier said than done, and processing guilt/regret is also easier said than done lol.
But hearing it a lot of times and telling yourself a lot and pretending someone else you love very much did the same thing and how you wouldn't think nearly as badly of them for the same thing, helps.
They aren't connected except that the same mods run them. We don't, or haven't so far, posted duplicate posts. So that shouldn't be an issue.
And then we're also paying attention and when it seems appropriate, we will likely close down one and redirect traffic to the one we keep up.
Userstyles?
I mean, share?
Well I'm an idiot lol!
Anyhow, thx for passing my question on haha!
To add to that, there was a bit of a time limit in which we had reason to believe we needed to secure the name so that it wouldn't be taken by certain persons and then just sat upon with no activity.
It's still lacking the collapse a comment ability! I am like when are they going to fix that?
But it's a much much newer instance. We'll see, but I think it has potential.
It's a good idea actually and I could see maybe having some different mods and/or handing over one to someone else at some point.
We weren't sure which to go with; also... there was a whole thing with the creator of the OG sub; we were a bit concerned that they would create those and just sit on them, so we wanted to go ahead and have at least one or two places for AR.
So we did one on lemmy and one on kbin (I think I put one on like... squabbles too?) (I should check that...) and will kinda go with whichever takes off.
I actually thought of you when I posted it bc I remember when you (or your spouse?) posted it to the OG sub and whatnot! I was like... should I try to get in touch first to see if it's ok to post it, and then I forgot to do that and posted it anyway lol.
Check those matching expressions of duping delight in that pic.