MoonElf

joined 7 months ago
[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 30 points 5 months ago

oh no that's abusive, children deserve privacy.

I had a door until i refused to unlock it one night around 15yo when my drunk abusive father wanted to hurt me over some transgression. He punched a hole through the door with his hands and then ripped it off the hinges while screaming he was going to kill me. I had called a friend who was on the phone with me and going to call 911 if he hurt me and that made him back off that night but the door just got left off, and it was 'my fault' that I no longer had one.

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 5 points 5 months ago

are remixes welcome?

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

okay sorry i don't know how this works and I didn't get you a ring but i promise to cherish you and raise the content as if it were my own

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 3 points 5 months ago

sure, always happy to help!

I have only used the apps on my phone so I can't speak to access sorry.

People are open about being trans on both apps although bff only has limited self labeling. So my labels there have me as a 'non binary woman' and 'queer' and 'transitioning' because that seems to be as close as they offer. It's a weird app - choosing friends by looking at pictures of them first seems super weird to me - but there's nice people there who want to be friends so 🤷🏼‍♀️

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 3 points 5 months ago (2 children)

so does this mean we are engaged?

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 5 points 5 months ago

great for the scalp and hair. healthy fats and vitamin e and b will give you a shiny coat!

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 5 points 5 months ago (2 children)

getting your biotin and folic acid and all? A hedge witch formulation might look like a spinach salad with sweet potato, nuts, berries, tofu and avocado...

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago

that's a bit intimate

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 5 points 5 months ago
[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago (2 children)

i met my trans gf on Lex, some other trans friends on Bumble for Friends and have made other rl trans friends through these initial online friends.

lex got bought and is kind of shitty now but it's still, at least by me, super queer and active daily so you'll see people post local events like meetups you can attend.

I understand many of the local queer places advertise on instagram and facebook as well as you might try these platforms if you can stomach them.

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

oh yeah they come in S/M/L even it's really easy to figure your size out you just go up or down. Keep in mind you might have to try a few brands until you find one that's just right.

My Kroger has a clothes section and women's underwear goes BOGO a lot so all my first bras came from there until i got sized.

Kroger lets you return bras as does Ross, TJ Maxx and Target which all have similar offerings and let you try on in store if you like. Target will let you order and bring it out to to your car for you if you really want to avoid folks but not shop online.

(Kroger is the easiest to steal from)

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 3 points 5 months ago

mm self love is the greatest feeling I am so happy to hear you want to be here!

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