[-] Hellnikko@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Obviously this is in mental health. If you're self aware of how cynical you are (and believe me, I've also been there as I'm also in my 40s), you really should look for avenues of therapy that resonate with you. Someone to talk to could actually hash out some inner feelings and turmoil you might be holding on.

I am/was a people pleaser also. It's hard to not be nice when people ask but I also realize if I'm saying yes to someone, I'm saying no to myself or something that might be more important. It's good to at least weigh the balance that way.

My final suggestion is a tall order. It may or may not be a popular suggestion here, but I found that stoicism has helped me. I read, watch videos, and listen to podcasts about the ancient Stoics and it helps me deal with feelings and encounters that enhance those feelings. Getting road rage? Take a deep breath and forgive that person who cut you off. Everyone has their demons and misfortune and perhaps they needed it more. But the point is you take and keep control of your feelings and actions and then you'll pursue peace. Of course shitty things will happen in the world and you don't want to be callous about them. But once you keep your integrity, authenticity, and pursue wisdom, courage, justice and temperance, everyone will see that and follow suit.

Good luck, stranger. I'm just an idiot on the Internet but your words pulled on my heartstrings.

[-] Hellnikko@lemmy.world 19 points 5 months ago

LEGO my LEGOS!

[-] Hellnikko@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago

That was green milk and that is a travesty of a Star Wars film. Tiddies couldn't save that wreck.

[-] Hellnikko@lemmy.world 12 points 8 months ago

You're incorrect. It is indeed a higher chance to switch from #1 to #3. You should look up Monty Hall paradox. It's in the link that you replied to that explains it.

[-] Hellnikko@lemmy.world 13 points 9 months ago

Nine Inch Nails - Pretty Hate Machine

[-] Hellnikko@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago

That's where the burning bush comes in.

[-] Hellnikko@lemmy.world 7 points 9 months ago

Not really. That's the reason for the new season is that everyone starts with a clean slate. A new character at this time won't help anything if you've already done statues, unlocked the main city waypoints, and renown to the third tier in each area.

Now season 2 was my first time getting to 100 and attempt to clear the season challenges. And my advice there since I won't complete it: do NOT skimp on leveling up your glyphs. I did everything else but I lost my momentum at the end because it became daunting.

[-] Hellnikko@lemmy.world 21 points 10 months ago

No joke. Many years ago we went to a biker bar and it happened to be a karaoke night. Asian guy sings Secret "Asian" man and we lost our shit.

[-] Hellnikko@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago

Plan WAY ahead and donate your body to science. Family isn't stuck with a bill to the vultures. Cremation even costs way too much to pay people that prey on grieving family for something that is inevitable. And science benefits from your donation. Ultimate win.

[-] Hellnikko@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Have they even fixed the tag component for researches? Last I checked, if you tagged something and then completed the research for it, it was permanently stuck on.

[-] Hellnikko@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

I fucking hate ~Disney~ Star Wars.

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Perhaps I'm a little slow, blind, ignorant, or any combination. I like to go to different instances and browse the communities in each to see if I can broaden my interests without having to be specific. The only way I've been able to do this is having to go through the browser because I have zero clue how to do it in the app. I can get to the trending, but those are generally empty with no description. Any help or guidance on this would be great.

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