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We have next door neighbors that are Muslim and are so very kind. They bring us plates of food when they cook and they even scared away some kids trying to steal our car at 2 in the morning.

I wanted to return the favor with a nice card from us and a gift. I don’t know how strict they are with Halal, and I read that Halal-friendly might not be good enough so I’m weary of a gift card to a restaurant even if it says Halal.

So what kind of gift(s) would be appropriate for a thank you? I appreciate any help you all can provide!

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[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@kbin.social 14 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Muslim here. If you're worried, something kosher will do as long as it doesn't contain alcohol (kosher food without alcohol is automatically halal).

[–] berg@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

kosher food without alcohol is automatically halal.

Noice!

[–] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 years ago

I think your over thinking this. Just don't buy anything obviously insulting like Alcohol or pork. As others pointed out, trying to match their tastes is going to be tricky.

It's the thought that counts, if there is something in a basket they can't consume they will likely just regift that item.

I'd go with something safe for the gift like a non food gift or, because nearly all religious food restrictions are related to animal products, a vegan safe gift. Then I would ask them to a dinner/game night. When you invite them you can say that you were a little nervous about asking because you don't know much about halal and set up a day where you can cook together. Gives you a chance to learn a little more about them and build the friendship.

[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

A collection of pretty little pots of herbs.

My Tractor Supply has potted lemon trees for under $20.

I like the fruit basket ideas too.

[–] electrogamerman@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

A rainbow flag. If they are not homophobic then they should accept it without problems, if they are homophobic, you dodged a bullet :)

[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@kbin.social 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Muslim here. If you're worried, something kosher will do as long as it doesn't contain alcohol (kosher food without alcohol is automatically halal).

[–] heveysetter@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago

Hi, Muslim here!

That sounds very generous of you, honestly I think you're being very accommodating and that's already very nice.

I think something simple like gift bouquets are fine, at grocery stores.

My neighbours give my family those sometimes. If one box has gelatin, we just give that specific box to a different neighbour.

But generally it's ok, just any generic gift bouquet should be fine.

Thanks for being a great neighbour!

[–] BeautifulPain@lemmy.world -4 points 2 years ago

Pork chops /s