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Like many others, I deleted all my posts and comments. Do I get some kind of achievement? I feel incredibly stupid.

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[–] QueenMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Wait, on purpose or accidentally? I always do it on purpose, during a rough moment.

Ummm...you get the achievement Big Oopsie!
I'm sorry if your activity meant a lot to you...but I'm sure you'll be able to make lots of new posts and comments in no time πŸ«‚
I believe in you, it'll be okay πŸ’œ

[–] AlataOrange@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I don't think I'll ever understand the desire so many have to destroy things in a moment of turmoil. I think I might just be too much of a hoarder to voluntarily get rid of things or accounts without a weeks deliberation

It feels like you get resolution and there’s no going back.

I just felt pathetic and needy. I don’t have many friends beyond my wife and cats.

πŸ«‚ mental health can be precarious. i hope it helped in the moment at least. it did for me even if i might like to take it back at some point.

[–] DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yes, here it is! πŸŽ–οΈ

Welcome back thanks for staying ❀️❀️❀️

[–] SpacePanda@leminal.space 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Could be worse, I got a credit card and spent thousands and you would think. Oh just return once delivered. Yup, my brain wouldnt let me do that either. The social anxiety combined with the shame and self loathing I kept all the things and it did not make me happier. : (

I'm sorry you're going through this though