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[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 7 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

Putting KDE over mint broke my Bluetooth please advise.

eta: if transfemmes are tech nerds what are transmascs?

[–] N0tTr0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 11 hours ago

mint isn’t good for your teeth

[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 31 points 21 hours ago

Reminds me of two lines I've heard:

"You know they're a brilliant programmer when they have a furry profile picture and multiple server donations active."

"The more pride flags a server has, the more technically competent the inhabitants are."

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 95 points 1 day ago (2 children)

There’s so many good transfem stereotypes out there. I’m proud to embody at least half of them.

[–] polysexualstick@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You're not named Emma, Lily or Luna though, that's at leasf 2 points off

[–] Shirow@lemmy.zip 9 points 13 hours ago

I feel oddly targeted

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 19 points 23 hours ago

But my name is a weird one outside of the Judeo-Christian canon, so that’s one point back on . :)

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 35 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I think everyone needs a few evil stereotypes too.

[–] osaerisxero@kbin.melroy.org 30 points 1 day ago

Trans Rights and Trans Wrongs

[–] slacktoid@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 day ago

Yes but like comically evil

[–] vzqq@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 23 hours ago

lol deep cuts here.

[–] mogoh@lemmy.ml 31 points 1 day ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (5 children)

OK, but who in the right mind is using FreeBSD on desktop?

[–] dubs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I did for a few years. It was awesome. So simple, and clean, and reliable

[–] mogoh@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

How much work was it to get the hardware running? Did all the driver work? Did you need to patch some Linux software in order to make things work?

[–] dubs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 21 hours ago

Most of it worked fine. I only ran into trouble once I started trying to run it on Raspberry Pi's (which they have since started supporting).

But my laptops and desktop-servers didn't have any driver issues that I remember.

[–] atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Define “right mind”…

[–] mogoh@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] N0tTr0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 11 hours ago

which hive mind? please be more specific

[–] libewa@feddit.org 12 points 1 day ago

trans people, apparently

[–] Damage@feddit.it 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

And why does it need KDE to be patched?

[–] StrassMav@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 day ago

Part of me now wants to.

[–] Pomal@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 day ago