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[–] cybervseas@lemmy.world 35 points 3 days ago (1 children)

We all get an extra five years because of Covid

[–] iltoroargento@startrek.website 10 points 3 days ago

We all blipped.

[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 17 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I'm 53. Spiritually and mentally, I haven't aged a day in thirty years.

[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

But nobody likes you when you’re 23

[–] stoly@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

50 and yes, I’m there with you. I am really the same person with perhaps more experience and wisdom. I think that people who get old are born that way.

[–] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 2 points 2 days ago

Some decades, you don't age at all. Some days, you age decades.

[–] Natanox@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 2 days ago

I'm almost 34 and my life so far was and still is not worth it so far, so I stopped counting at 20. Unfortunately my body didn't and already began slow disassembly.

[–] supermurs@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] Jojowski@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 days ago

Agree, at 36 I feel like I'm almost ready to turn 25 soon!

[–] tpihkal@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

Thanks, maybe I can finally live my 30s more like I thought they'd go.

[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I go the other way. My 20s were filled with good things yes, but also many embarrassing life lessons where I didn't read the room appropriately or missed possible opportunities for romantic relationships. I had a short period of doing silly things to try to impress others. I spent money on stupid shit, and stayed at a job for way too long before finally moving on which put me years behind in my career. I got addicted to World of Warcraft for an entire year and accomplished absolutely nothing with my life. I never physically injured anyone or committed crimes, but I could have been a better version of myself. I do value my 20s, but really because of all the lessons I learned that made me a better person in the years after.

You can keep my 20s, thanks. My 30s were pretty excellent though and I would probably be okay being 33-37 until I die a regularly human lifespan.

[–] eurodyne@piefed.world 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I’m 47 and still in my 20s. I feel ya.

Although, I have quit doing coke. or… Rather… I can no longer afford it.

Still have a mohawk, though

[–] DarkCloud@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

What could Leo DeCaprio Jr. Possibly mean by this?

[–] TheJesusaurus@piefed.ca 4 points 3 days ago

Thanks mate, now I gotta hit my 30s again

[–] mycodesucks@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago