The title, though
Privacy
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If you don't like virgin, fuck it.
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Title influenced my initial interpretation to land at "try again tomorrow if you can't get it up."
Fuck Virgin

Switch phone companies asap. In the meantime maybe zadarma or something like that
Give US Mobile a try.
Alternatively jmp.chat
JMP.chat is based entirely on your data connection, always. So if you have wifi or cell data, you can make calls.
Love US Mobile just avoid their yearly promotion contracts. A week later you will see a deal better and you will be mad
But month to month it’s always the same and I love it
Seconded for US Mobile. Switched to them from Mint Mobile and their offerings of multiple lines based on the existing big three networks is amazing!
I have a Mint line and am considering switching to US Mobile because Mint gets deprioritized hard by T-Mobile in crowded areas. Signal is also weaker in buildings. Was the switch and keeping your number easy?
Yeah, pretty seamless. Just call Mint to get the transfer ID number.
If their ToS is unacceptable to you, I guess you could get VoIP service from a SIP provider and just always use VoIP via a VoIP app rather than your phone's native calling support. Just use your telco for data.
Costs more.
I think that it'd be mostly of interest if you really wanted privacy, since you could run the VoIP to a VPN provider, and then the VoIP provider doesn't know where you are physically and your telco knows where you are but has no idea what you're doing (other than talking to your VPN provider).
Plus, while your options are limited as to telcos
there's a natural monopoly from owning the physical infrastructure for a vell netwoek
you have lots of options for VoIP service providers.
In the US, I believe that there may be some (recently-added) restrictions on SIP SMSing.
EDIT: One other thought. If you and your wife have different phone hardware and especially if your hardware is very old, I believe that there's hardware support required for WiFi calling support.
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Yeah, sounds like it.
https://www.att.com/features/wifi-calling/
How can I tell if my phone supports WiFi calling?
Most of the Apple and Android smartphones we have sold since 2015 support AT&T Wi-Fi Calling. You’ll still need a smartphone with an eligible rate plan for it to work.
It's possible that that's what you're hitting.
EDIT: One other thought. If you and your wife have different phone hardware and especially if your hardware is very old, I believe that there’s hardware support required for WiFi calling support.
My phone is actually newer. I know wifi calling works on my phone because I had it enabled with our previous carrier.