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[–] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

I feel this. I did really poorly in school (ADHD), didn't go to college, and my last IQ test yielded only marginally above average results (and for all I know I just guessed lucky or am good at pattern recognition). But despite feeling like I'm still a naive and immature idiot with no idea what he's doing, the more my wife and I associate with the parents of other kids in my daughter's class, the more we realize we're quite possibly the only fucking adults in the room.

[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 43 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Pass that shit, ‘Squatch, you ain’t the only one.

Fuckin' Bogartfoot over here, am I right?

[–] Hackworth@piefed.ca 32 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I blame most of it on the colonization of human attention.

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 19 points 1 day ago

Ray Bradbury was writing scary stories about big screen TVs and ear buds in the 1950s.

[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 35 points 1 day ago

Its scary honestly.

[–] Phantaloons@piefed.zip 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Don't mistake stubbornness for ignorance. Many people are too proud to ever be wrong.

they just look at you, like the memes

[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nah, I'm wrong all the time.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nice paradox there, mr. Nocturnal

[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Just bcz you're right all the time doesn't mean I can't be wrong all the time!

[–] mrodri89@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I drink and eat edibles daily. Ive killed many brain cells on this floating space miracle of life. But still everyday I see the dumbest decisions by our “leaders”.

In my town they just approved a data center in a place plagued by droughts. Were so fucked. Especially given the Super El Niño.

Its gonna fuck up a lot of wildlife.

[–] AllNewTypeFace@leminal.space 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

In the words of J. R. “Bob” Dobbs, “You know how dumb the average guy is? Well, by definition, half of ‘em are even dumber than that”

[–] ButteredBread@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

not how averages work but probs cuz there's a lot of people to bakance out... ig.

[–] AllNewTypeFace@leminal.space 1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

How smart would you bet on the median guy being?

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 1 points 1 day ago

Judging from another post about an engineer that blasted through a test out of spite, got put into some training and had a print with the test showing his score of 80, which was "smarter than 90%", that makes me think the average is sitting somewhere close to 70

[–] Tja@programming.dev 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm willing to bet it's 100 IQ

[–] Magnum@infosec.pub 1 points 1 day ago

In the US its 98

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Smart people know that "I don't understand" is much more likely than "they don't make sense".

"Other people are stupid" is a flattering explanation to the incurious mind.

[–] Viceversa@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Are you smart enough to assert this?

[–] LoreSoong@startrek.website 3 points 1 day ago

I always love the coments on posts like this, you can always tell exactly who you want at the function.

[–] plutopos@lemmy.zip -4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Assuming other people are stupid is a sign of un-curiosity imo. There's usually a reason behind other people's action. Not necessarily a good reason, but a reason

[–] Tja@programming.dev 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Very often the reason is that they are stupid. I work helping teams with specific technologies, meeting a new team basically every week.

Sometimes strange behavior is caused by very good reasons that are not obvious at first glance, but very often is just people being dumb and generally bad at their job / willfully ignorant. And I'm talking about objective facts / best practices, not even political opinions.

[–] plutopos@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

Yes, but I think it's worth to figure out if someone is bad at their job because they put no effort, or because they were taught wrong in school, or because they have weird obsessions etc.

[–] MJKee9@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This makes no sense. Some people are stupid. Are you saying there are no stupid people? Because unless you are your statement makes no sense. And if you are that makes me question your stupidity.

[–] plutopos@lemmy.zip -3 points 1 day ago

I don't think there are no stupid people. I think stupidity is more nuanced than just "this person is stupid". It's always worth to think about why someone made a choice, even if it seems stupid. Maybe you realize it's not so stupid after all. Or maybe you understand why the person made a stupid choice, and the deeper flaws that led to it.

[–] Cybersec@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I like your take and agree, but I’ll say you can assess the rationale and experiences that lead some people to think like they do and understand them… and still conclude that it’s stupid. Note I say that “it’s “ stupid referring to the reasoning, not necessarily the person. I know people who are smart enough or competent in some ways, but they arrive at really stupid conclusions and do or choose stupid things.

[–] plutopos@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

Yes this is exactly what I mean