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[–] thiscat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago

this is me with video games

[–] Maxxie@piefed.blahaj.zone 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

cant decide between pup/py and slut/me both are bangers

[–] TotallyWorthLife@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

pup/py hits pretty good for me lately tbh

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago (3 children)

where's the app that gives me a new identification and pronouns every day? seems useful

[–] renegadespork@lemmy.jelliefrontier.net 29 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My new gender identity can generate up to 43 kilopronouns per second.

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Unless they are encrypted with public and private pronouns I'm not interested

I think it uses sha/shem.

idk i don't use many apps :/

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I had no idea i was such a fucking stereotype.

[–] hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Typical transfem behavior is to assume all trans women are also into your hobby.

I've also heard that most trans women are film photographers. No girl you're just more likely to meet those who share your interests.

[–] LetchLemon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Looks nervously at my plants, film photography camera and self host setup.

[–] unknown@piefed.social 2 points 1 week ago

My ex was a film photographer, I have an indoor jungle. Yep. This tracks.

[–] hessenjunge@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Are you also collecting species or are you „just a hoarder“?

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Kinda both. I had to cut down after I had 16 different chilli plants in my dining room and it looked a bit like a spicy jungle.

[–] hessenjunge@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Nice, I recently got into collecting Amorphophallus. I plan to grow my own biological sunshades.

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If you want refuge from the day star, I would recommend the larger Gunnera species'. I'm limited by what I can grow, because I live in a place that has around 7 months of winter and for two of those, there's no natural light.

[–] hessenjunge@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Like a Giant Rhubarb. Nice, I live in southern Germany - we love Rhubarb. I can't imagine living in a place with such extended periods of low / no light - I guess you plastered the place with LEDs?

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Don't eat it. Actually I have about 5000 lumins of cool white fluorescent tubes. Enough to keep things alive over winter but not the correct wavelength to promote flowering.

[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

yes, but with cats. every day i resist the urge to go get a new one. if a stray turns up at some point i wont have a choice :3

becoming a cat lady ( ꈍᴗꈍ)

[–] hessenjunge@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

TIL I’m trans.

Not really though, but do you know how many plants I own?

Not enough.

Edit: Plants, not pants. 😆I own a lot of pants but never as many as plants.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Do you have to do laundry too much? Or do you just wear them when they're dirty?

[–] hessenjunge@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 week ago

Haha, fucking swiping & autocorrect. I do own a lot of pants but I meant plants.

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

But.... I want to join the pronoun cuddle circle :(

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I wouldn't mind a cuddle circle, but as an egg I always hated when we were forced to give our pronouns. Even though I have an answer now, I still don't like them

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Asking because I am often the person who leads the introductions IRL, if I say, "Name, pronouns if you'd like to share, and <third thing>", does that feel like you have enough of an out?

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That's fine, and those circles have gotten better in recent years. It's just that when I was trying to figure myself out, they more often required you to not skip over questions

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

That makes sense :/

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

I totally get it. It's why I try to just avoid either asking for them, or using them irl, if a person hasn't volunteered them or otherwise made their gender known.

I've run into enough people that have issues with pronouns that it made me question how necessary it really is to use them. There's times it's unavoidable if you don't want to do language gymnastics that make things more awkward and uncomfortable, but it's kinda surprising how often it's avoidable once the habit forms. Not that I always remember, but still.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@feddit.org 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i don't buy plants, in this household i am the plant :)

[–] Kacarott@aussie.zone 6 points 1 week ago

How long have you been under cover?

[–] unknown@piefed.social 4 points 1 week ago