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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

Rules

  1. All posts must be showerthoughts
  2. The entire showerthought must be in the title
  3. No politics
    • If your topic is in a grey area, please phrase it to emphasize the fascinating aspects, not the dramatic aspects. You can do this by avoiding overly politicized terms such as "capitalism" and "communism". If you must make comparisons, you can say something is different without saying something is better/worse.
    • A good place for politics is c/politicaldiscussion
  4. Posts must be original/unique
  5. Adhere to Lemmy's Code of Conduct and the TOS

If you made it this far, showerthoughts is accepting new mods. This community is generally tame so its not a lot of work, but having a few more mods would help reports get addressed a little sooner.

Whats it like to be a mod? Reports just show up as messages in your Lemmy inbox, and if a different mod has already addressed the report, the message goes away and you never worry about it.

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Anarchy is very cool, until someone has the wrong opinion.

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[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

The anarchist code of conduct

fucking morons

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 2 points 2 hours ago

I think "being able to select which community(ies) one is part of and having the ability to opt out" vs being born into it is a key differentiator.

Fwiw, I'm not part of any moderating teams.

[–] fodor@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 hours ago

If people are trolling, they can get banned and troll elsewhere. That's common sense, right?

And one might say they didn't mean to troll, which just means they need to lurk moar.

[–] BonkTheAnnoyed@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Okay, I'll bite. I need to add to my block list anyway.

Y'all have heard of the Nazi Bar problem, right? Paradox of intolerance? Which turns out not to be a paradox after all? You should def look that one up rather than waiting for me to type it all out.

[–] Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (4 children)

People like to refer to the paradox of tolerance but always skip out on the inconvenient bit:

""Unlimited tolerance must lead to the disappearance of tolerance. If we extend unlimited tolerance even to those who are intolerant, if we are not prepared to defend a tolerant society against the onslaught of the intolerant, then the tolerant will be destroyed, and tolerance with them.

— In this formulation, I do not imply, for instance, that we should always suppress the utterance of intolerant philosophies; as long as we can counter them by rational argument and keep them in check by public opinion, suppression would certainly be most unwise. But we should claim the right to suppress them if necessary even by force; for it may easily turn out that they are not prepared to meet us on the level of rational argument, but begin by denouncing all argument; they may forbid their followers to listen to rational argument, because it is deceptive, and teach them to answer arguments by the use of their fists or pistols.

We should therefore claim, in the name of tolerance, the right not to tolerate the intolerant.""

If you are not able to rationally argue why we shouldn't be bigoted, I don't know what to tell you.

[–] CXORA@aussie.zone 6 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

One problem with bigots is they dont care about truth or logic. Its a waste of time to continually argue the same points over and over again with people who refuse to learn or think.

[–] Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 hours ago

You personally don't have to. Always plenty of people out there willing to do it for you.

[–] cypherpunks@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

If you are not able to rationally argue why we shouldn’t be bigoted, I don’t know what to tell you.

it's not that people can't, but spaces which have unlimited tolerance for sealions suggesting that it's necessary to argue that are likely to have less interesting discussions than spaces which do not 🙄

[–] Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com -3 points 4 hours ago

Then be clear about the rules. I have 0 problems with people creating communities with very clear rules on what is allowed and what isn't. I wholeheartedly welcome that. What I take issue with is when people claim to have open discussion, or the space is for "rational discourse", or "anarchist" discourse etc. but then ban everything that doesn't very exactly align with the mod ideology.

If most people waving the anarchist flag would admit they're just doing it because it's cool but actually, they just want to be the authoritarians in place of the authoritarians, that would be fine. I'd happily avoid them. Problem is that when they don't admit it, they drag down the whole anarchist ideology because they are misrepresenting it.

[–] Waveform@multiverse.soulism.net 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

i think people not knowing how to actually win an argument against a bigot is exactly the reason there are so many these days

shit's easy. not that they'll admit defeat but getting them babbling irrational nonsense takes very little debating skills. and when they inevitably start throwing ad hominems, then the mods have legitimate grounds to kick them out.

[–] BonkTheAnnoyed@lemmy.blahaj.zone -5 points 4 hours ago (3 children)

Just to let you know before I block you, I didn't read your "reasonable disagreement" of a wall of text

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

so I guess you have an intolerance to intolerance?

[–] Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

You mean the direct quote of Popper that you yourself referred to? You didn't read the very piece of text you told me to read?

[–] Waveform@multiverse.soulism.net 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

>"look up paradox of tolerance UwU" >"ok, let's look at what it actually says" >"i didn't read it UwU"

that tracks

[–] BonkTheAnnoyed@lemmy.blahaj.zone -2 points 4 hours ago

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Lemmy is a Tankie Bar.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 7 points 8 hours ago

I don't love moderating my communities at all. I barely even read the reports. 🤷‍♂️

[–] SalamenceFury@piefed.social 17 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

You know that anarchism doesn't mean no rules right? It just means no rulers, but that's not how it works on Lemmy or any social media of this type for that matter.

[–] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

It just means no rulers, but that's not how it works

...anywhere in reality.

[–] SalamenceFury@piefed.social 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Humans spent thousands of years without rulers. Also, look at all the grassroots organizations trying to stop fascism in America right now.

Leaders are dispensable AND disposable. We do not need them.

[–] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 2 points 5 hours ago

Humans spent thousands of years without rulers.

orly? which thousands?

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 5 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

right-wingers aren't allowed on leftist spaces. nothing positive comes from that.

[–] definitely_AI@feddit.online 34 points 14 hours ago (7 children)

Looking at you, leftymemes

ugh

groupthink central, do NOT divert an inch from the state sanctioned opinions, OR ELSE

[–] yucandu@lemmy.world 24 points 11 hours ago

It's all fun and games until you say that China is wearing socialism as a cloak the same way America wears Christianity or Israel wears anti-semitism.

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[–] troed@fedia.io 27 points 14 hours ago

This is very true - I usually refer to it as "BOFH behavior". I think it stems from many people who end up hosting or moderating feeling that they themselves have been marginalised before so "now they're going to show them!".

A great example is a Mastodon instance where if you don't agree with the site's admin they'll block you at the server level instead of from their personal account. The belief is that if they have an opinion that opinion must then be enforced for everyone else under their control too.

[–] yucandu@lemmy.world 7 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Just tell them that moral absolutism benefits the status-quo.

Because it's true. It does. I think it's actually a psyop by the capitalists to prevent socialism ever taking a foothold or affecting their money. Capitalists are afraid of positive incremental change, so they tricked leftists into being afraid of it too.

[–] Waveform@multiverse.soulism.net 1 points 5 hours ago

the spiciest take

nobody wants to change the game, they're just mad that they're not winning it

[–] TwodogsFighting 11 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Some of those who moderate postses!

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