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[โ€“] useless_modern_god@aussie.zone 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Happy cat day. I just ran into this random person with a cat powered back pack and they let me take a photo๐Ÿ™‚

[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 3 points 1 hour ago

What a little darling!!

[โ€“] tone212_@aussie.zone 3 points 2 hours ago

Today is my perfect summer weather. Sunโ€™s out, refreshing breeze, none of that awful humidity from yesterday. Too bad itโ€™s a work day but Iโ€™m out enjoying it for a bit.

[โ€“] RustyRaven@aussie.zone 7 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Happy birthday to my terrarium which turns 7 today!

Facebook reminded me of a post I made about the workshop I did where it was created. The original plants I put in died after a couple of years, and I replaced them with some wild leafy plants I found growing on top of the water tank. They are not the most aesthetic, but they are surviving. I thought they might not survive the move as I don't have anywhere very bright to put it in, but it seems to be going ok so far.

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 2 points 3 hours ago

That looks so cool. ๐Ÿ™‚

[โ€“] RustyRaven@aussie.zone 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I ticked off another item on my ' meant to do this months ago' list. I just ordered a UPS for the modem so I can continue to have internet in the case of power failure. It also means my security cameras will be able to continue recording even if someone flips off the power switch. Most of the cameras are battery operated, but that doesn't help much if there is no internet to send the information to.

[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 8 points 5 hours ago (4 children)

๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ› ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ› ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ› A day late here, but it was Cat Day in Japan yesterday. I've decided we should celebrate this today. Post cat pics, please!

Alfie, needing to get involved in everything I do.

Mofusand goodies I bought myself for my birthday.
๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ› ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ› ๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ›

[โ€“] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Cheeto and Sparkles (might actually be Cookie), friend's cats.

[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 2 points 1 hour ago

Such amazing fluffy orange kitties today!! I LOVE this!! The one on the sill looks regal af!

[โ€“] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

This is Fudge. My daughter's boyfriend's cat.

[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 6 points 4 hours ago

Haiiii Fudge, what a sweetheart!

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 5 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

Casey

spoiler( I am tired of auto editors that fuck with my pictures, I'll see if I can disable it )

[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

he was such a beautiful boy , he stayed in Detroit with my bestie Tammy

I have many Casey stories ๐Ÿ™‚

[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 1 points 3 hours ago

Feel free to share some, I'd love that!

[โ€“] Eagle@aussie.zone 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Alfie is a supermodel. โค๏ธ

[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 4 points 4 hours ago

He is getting a groom in a few weeks time because his fur has managed to get so matted and gross! But still, he knows how to pull a cute face.

[โ€“] RustyRaven@aussie.zone 3 points 4 hours ago

The grocery delivery has arrived, they mostly did good this time. Nothing completely skipped and just one dodgy substitution that has been refunded. I sometimes wonder about the people filling the orders, it should be fairly simple to see that substituting 12 eggs for 6 is not equivalent. I've had them do that to me before, and if they were charging equivalent unit pricing it would be fine, but I'm not happy to be paying a premium to get less than I ordered. Oh well, it's slightly annoying but in the end I got free eggs.

[โ€“] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 8 points 5 hours ago (5 children)

Depressing medical stuff

Keeping it short.

Ol' girl had some teeth pulled a week ago, I said it was a bad idea. Only eating glucose really. Refuses soup, fuck all water, no exercise, cracks it at everything, down 4kg. It took months to to slow that weight loss, and then the same again to get it back up.

Everything I've tried to do over the last year has just evaporated in a week.

I have no idea how the ol' boy is expecting to do this japan trip they're planning in like 20 days' time.


[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 7 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

That trip sounds like such a bad idea. How long has it been booked for? Is it sheer stubbornness or does he truly not see the state she's in? Does she want to go on the trip? Lots of questions, none of which you need to actually answer, btw! That's rough as.

[โ€“] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 4 points 4 hours ago

It is a bad idea. Been booked for a year. I was hoping to use it as an excuse to get her in better shape but the punches keep coming. He sees her state and we've locked horns far too many times how to best go about it but I just have no say. She is very worried about the trip.

I honestly don't know what to do from here :(

[โ€“] Eagle@aussie.zone 5 points 5 hours ago

Oh thats tough... Mouth pain is hard enough, let alone with her complexity around food already.

[โ€“] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 4 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Oof. I had one tooth pulled and while that pain was manageable it gave me the worst headache and made me hesitant to eat in case I would disturb the site and cause dry socket. Straws were forbidden.

NG tube is an option or even parenteral nutrition but I know it will be refused. I have a quick no temper stovetop custard recipe using real eggs but she doesnโ€™t sound like a fan of sweets. And olโ€™ boy wonโ€™t cook it.

I donโ€™t know if you can get through to him but Iโ€™m hoping she manages okay. I really am. I donโ€™t envy the position youโ€™re in, all the responsibilities but no say. If things go sideways it wonโ€™t be your fault.

[โ€“] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Yea I'm pushing for NG or even just IV for hydration but I just can't move these decisions.

you've been really helpful with all this melba and can't thank you enough, sincerely.

[โ€“] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 3 points 3 hours ago

No worries, I know how hard both nutrition and carer duties can be

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

so many hugs

what is her favourite food? even cakes are good food, they have eggs and butter and flour , try cakes , not kidding

I used to make giant apple crumbles and huge fruit bread loaves ( made with eggs ) for a friends elderly parents, it was easy to eat, healthy and very appetising

[โ€“] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 2 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

what is her favourite food?

Yea that's the problem. I keep on trying different things (soft diet / puree only) but it's always hit and miss.

[โ€“] Thornburywitch@aussie.zone 3 points 3 hours ago

I'm assuming you've tried steamed eggs? Sauce on top can be anything she likes. Even a sweet sauce. Congee was a lifesaver for me when I had most of my teeth pulled out a couple of years ago - didn't need chewing. Can be made sweet or savoury.

[โ€“] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Iโ€™m not sure if sheโ€™ll try it but cheese soufflรฉ is quite soft and isnโ€™t too bad to make if you donโ€™t fuss about getting the height. I made it in home ec when I was sixteen.

Basically itโ€™s cheese sauce and yolks(?) folded into stiff beaten egg white and baked with the ramekins or bowl sitting in a pan of water. It ends up like a soft moist pudding.

Edit: That said youโ€™ve already done more than your share of catering and effort also has to come from them

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

maybe he just isn't saying anything

trying to keep it positive for her ( and himself )

in fact, is she looking forward to it? That might be an incentive for her to behave better

I don't believe as a doctor he doesn't see what is happening

[โ€“] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 1 points 3 hours ago

Yep that's exactly right. He is trying to stay positive and he knows what's happening so giving him that.

She's not looking forward to it. I was just hoping to get her more confident (w/ walking, eating etc.) but this is a big spanner and I'm out of things to do in that amount of time.

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 5 points 5 hours ago

I've been so busy and preoccupied I completely forgot it was my father's birthday, a month ago. Did not give it one thought until this morning when I wondered how old he is. ( very old, he comes from one of the longest lived families in his country, so he could last another ten years )

I'm not upset or anything, just noting that I really am well over my FOO, they are out of my life in actuality, and as much as possible out of my head.

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

after last night's rant about apple

I''ve done much reading and watching of vids, messed around with settings and such

it's just the nature of modern IP services

companies don't sell anything anymore and the cloud is not storage, it's just subscription and data transfer services , when we put what we own on the cloud it becomes their property or is deleted/ignored

time to get inventive

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 2 points 3 hours ago

I have bought some adaptors.

I have some usb sticks.

I have an android.

I have a PC.

I have determination.

lets see if I can save hundreds of music albums I have on my old iphone, and I must do it as the battery really is becoming unsafe.

[โ€“] RustyRaven@aussie.zone 4 points 7 hours ago

When I woke up it was 8 degrees outside and still 15 degrees inside. It is still a wonderful novelty to have a house that is properly insulated, my old house would have been almost as cold inside as out. I also have a magpie sitting on the back fence singing for me.

It's lovely to have some cooler but still clear and sunny days. I've got the next week off and have some gardening plans and it looks like the weather is going to fully cooperate. Unlike the last break in spring where it was near constant rain. The current plan is to do some work on edging and weeding the back garden over the next couple of days, then have a load of mulch delivered on Wednesday. I'll get a eucy mulch for the native area and to do the path area along the fenceline, then I might get a couple more bales of sugarcane mulch to refresh the herb garden.

[โ€“] Force_majeure1234@aussie.zone 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Force_majeure1234@aussie.zone 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I changed my mind and I'm heading to work now. Good little corporate drone.

[โ€“] RustyRaven@aussie.zone 4 points 6 hours ago (3 children)

But it's such lovely weather to be sick in! I wouldn't be at all surprised if a lot of people are coming down sick today.

[โ€“] Thornburywitch@aussie.zone 6 points 6 hours ago

Fellow passenger on the tram this morning, sniffing and coughing really wetly. Not wearing a mask either. There's no escape.

Might be a "hey I'm not feeling great but I thought I'd come in and see how I felt,", then go home a couple hours in

[โ€“] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 1 points 5 hours ago

Two people in my very small team are out, but it isn't the usual suspects.

[โ€“] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I tried watching a movie at my computer last night because I'd usually rather watch something on the TV but some movies might have loud moments that scare the kids.

The main thing is i need to make sure I get high quality torrents because even 1080p doesn't cut it on these 4k monitors

[โ€“] calhoon2005@aussie.zone 5 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

Stremio and a realdebrid subscription has been the most value for money purchase I've made...

[โ€“] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 3 points 1 hour ago

I figure if I'm pirating I should do it free end to end but I might look into them more

[โ€“] bacon@aussie.zone 4 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Beep Beep ๐Ÿšš
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