melbaboutown

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[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 1 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I was waiting for Aristopet spot ons to come back in stock as a 3 pack for <4kg cats was $20. This is very good value and was recommended as safe. Unfortunately they’re no longer listed on the site and other sellers are gouging.

I’ve found Neovet which has the same ingredients and a similar price point at ~$25 for the same size, however I’m unfamiliar with the brand. It also carries a warning to not apply it to dogs, use with caution in sick underweight or debilitated cats and safety has not been established in pregnant or lactating cats. Not sure if that’s standard for these ingredients so probably ask someone who would know https://www.budgetpetproducts.com.au/product/neovet-for-cats-over-4kg-3-pack/22888

Adding that Aristopet ear canker drops are really well priced but contain pyrethrins so probably don’t use them on cats. Because toxic.

Please don’t use onion, garlic, or tea tree oil (or any essential oils) as a budget option to treat fleas or ear infections either. Toxic to cats and possibly dogs.

Also this site is a good guide to sussing out cat and dog food. https://www.petfoodreviews.com.au/

I’m using it again looking for budget cat foods that aren’t too bad as I’ve seen reports of cheap dry foods like Moggybix and Friskies causing kidney disease and urinary blockages. And while I was using Smitten wet food for a while apparently the dry food version is bad too. As is Whiskas.

Obviously do what you have to do but it’s not great to feed stuff like this long term as it can lead to massive vet bills. Even cheap wet food seems to be better value and fewer health problems than dry.

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 1 points 18 hours ago

Just a quick vacuum of strategic spots and spraying disinfectant. And some laundry. Trying not to get taken by the fairy rings (which I keep walking into)

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 3 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (2 children)

I let lil bro walk through the house once more.

cleaning

Vacuumed and sprayed Glen 20 over his path again. Either this works or I’ve really screwed myself over and have bigger problems. I should have bought those plastic carpet runners but didn’t expect to do this. Wondering how effective carpet cleaner machines are against anything infectious… I used to have a carpet steamer I got rid of but that wouldn’t get hot enough. Damn carpet.

I haven’t begun trying to apply the cream to him because I haven’t had a chance to inspect him with the lamp. I seriously need a longer extension cord.

fretting

I’m unnecessarily stressing myself out when already in a bad state and am so not ready for another pet. He won’t accept being an inside kitty. It’s also costing money.

But when someone suggested it might be time to trap him in the house and call the rescue contact to take him and try and find him a foster placement I felt so bad about sending him away. Didn’t want to make and live with that decision. At least letting him check out the house makes it easier to trap him if he needs medical treatment or his outdoor situation is no longer working and he needs to be adopted. Situation still in limbo. I’m torn.

Waiting on a Halo brand scanner to see if that will pick up a microchip. It’s still budget but a more reliable brand. I should have spent the extra money to get it from the site that sells to vets… Fingers crossed ebay doesn’t send a counterfeit.

mourning

I’m still thinking of Melbcat a lot. I spent most of today just struggling emotionally and sleeping. I’m in a bad way. Thinking about how she died towards the end of summer so she got to soak up those last sun rays at the window. She loved summer. But now I don’t get the extra affectionate winter cuddles. It’s so strange to not be spooned then gradually pushed out of bed.

The house feels empty without her and extra bare with the cleaning I’ve done. Had to do. Everything looks different and it feels like it’s wiping away our old life together.

We were so bonded it feels like I’d had her forever and then she was gone in a blink of an eye. I haven’t even begun to deal with it. I feel like my grieving process is being rushed so it may just be mostly suppressed for later.

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 1 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Same, I’ve spent today sleeping and didn’t even get that much done

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don’t know how

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thanks, sorry I’m like this

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Feeling so anxious and sad. I wish I could just harden up. Today will probably be chores or maybe veging

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

Well, rest wasn’t on the cards. I heard crying meows over the rain and opened the door to a familiar figure on the doorstep. Now I know for sure he’s left out all night in the rain and not going inside/home.

He walked through the house sniffing (including Melbcat’s bed) then he ate from her untouched bowl and rubbed on the wall. I let him out the back to feed him under the tarp and show him the sheltered beds.

griefUgly cried while he bunted me because it feels like I’m betraying my late cat by trying to step up for this one. I’m so not ready for another cat even if there was a way to keep him. I haven’t even processed Melbcat’s loss and am just wishing I had her back. I miss how we used to be and don’t know what I’m going to do with/about the new fella.

I know I’m being a stresshead. Nobody is forcing me to help this cat. But I do feel responsible for him seeing the level of neglect and am attached to him so feel like I’m being rushed into another caretaking situation. Just rebounding and replacing my treasured girl. And like these circumstances are pushing me into “moving on” before I’ve had a chance to grieve. I’m feeling everything so strongly right now.

cleaning

I wasn’t expecting this and hadn’t even picked up the floor like I planned. I showered and put my clothes in the wash then sprayed the carpet and objects where he walked with Glen 20 and put the floor junk in a tub. Then did a quick vacuum and mop of his path (disinfectant wipe on the wall) then sprayed Tinaderm.

He’s run off into the night now so I’m going to tuck up in bed until the wash finishes. I’ll have to do the rest of the cleaning tomorrow. I may have to really look at the budget too.

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 1 points 1 day ago

Thanks, I will. Tonight might just have to be rest

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Lately I feel like I’m drowning. Slogging through life with all the responsibility to deal with it but none of the control required. Can’t I get a break?

spoilerThis grief counseling is likely going to consist of ✨10 sessions under a mental health plan ✨ (with out of pocket fees 💸)

I’m going to borrow a weighted blanket and see if that acts as some kind of thunder shirt, and am considering a cheap lava lamp for night. No idea if these things help or just yoink money

 

With the cost of living being what it is this could potentially be useful to someone.

Unfortunately not every state currently has a participating clinic but there are different locations around Australia.

I’m also going to piggyback on this to say that even if you’re not homeless but just in financial hardship some pet shops will give you the expired but still usable parasite treatments for your pet if you ask. For free. And possibly also pet food. At least Petstock in Melbourne does.

Please avoid buying flea products for cats from the supermarket as they may be contaminated with or contain pyrethrins which are toxic to cats. Aristopet flea and worm spot ons are the much cheaper generic version of another brand and are recommended if you can’t afford the premium brands. (I’m aware Aristopet is stocked in supermarkets too but due to that I checked with a pet shop manager that this product was okay.) Purina I’m told is not so good.

Edit: Please don’t buy a higher dosage of parasite treatment (or other meds) and split it between pets to save money. This may be alright with very safe OTC supplements like Zylkene and you may open a capsule or break a tablet to give half if your vet says to. But the reason it isn’t really safe to split up a larger dose of medication between animals or multiple administrations is that the drug isn’t always equally distributed through the whole of it, so one part may have way too much of the drug and another not enough. Flea products intended for dogs can also kill cats.

It’s possible to get pet meds cheaper online if you get the prescription from the vet and submit it to the website. There will be a delay due to mailing it out but this is legit.

Also check if there are local pet food pantries. Some human food pantries may also give pet food.

In Melbourne Lort Smith gives concession discounts and offers payment plans. Open Pay is available at other practices.

Pets Of The Homeless is another great resource. (Their aim is to offer enough help for you to keep your pet through tough times so they will NOT take your pet away. In fact they don’t even accept surrenders.) They also offer emergency boarding, low cost desexing, a pet food bank, and a one-off cover of a medical procedure in your pet’s lifetime.

Edit: There’s also Best Mates run by Dr Jason Rapke in Glen Iris.

Low cost desexing may also be offered by The Cat Protection Society, RSPCA or through your local council.

Hope this helps someone 🤞

 

Yarrabyte is taking a self care day

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by melbaboutown@aussie.zone to c/foodaustralia@aussie.zone
 

Interesting watch. I’m too young to have got the bread and dripping and didn’t have chokos but some of these are definitely familiar and weren’t bad.

Edit: They forgot the bread and butter pudding and the golden syrup dumplings.

 

If you have a surplus of lemons

 

This is a cheap way to have a big jug of cold drink that isn’t just plain water. It can be black or green tea and you can add lemon slices

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Heatwave warning (aussie.zone)
submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by melbaboutown@aussie.zone to c/melbourne@aussie.zone
 

Ok, it looks like a heatwave is coming this week from Tuesday to Friday?

Different sources (my UV warning app and search engine preview sourced from Apple Weather) especially put Wednesday at 40C and Friday at 35C.

Is that what you guys are seeing? BOM site doesn’t seem to work properly on my phone to check this reliably but be warned I guess.

Make sure to have icy poles and drink enough, get your ice cubes started. Check on the elderly, make sure your cooling is working if you have it, keep pets inside and make sure they don’t get heat stress or burn paws on asphalt when they go on a walk.

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Mango chicken curry (www.ausport.gov.au)
submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by melbaboutown@aussie.zone to c/foodaustralia@aussie.zone
 

I used to love this one, a very mild fruity curry. Fine for kids.

Don’t worry about getting hold of apricot nectar or couscous as substitutions are very easily made. I used to use orange juice instead and serve it over rice. I think I’ve seen generic brand tinned mango.

Chicken thighs could also be used instead of breast (if you’re willing to skin and cut them into strips or pieces) to make this dish cheaper.

Edit: If meat is still too expensive you could also just add browned cubes of pressed tofu or a handful of cashew or peanuts, or pad it out with broccoli

 

It’s soup weather. I can’t have tomato or cheese anymore but am randomly craving minestrone.

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