melbaboutown

joined 2 years ago
[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 3 points 3 hours ago

They just slug it out

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks. This has really messed me up

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 1 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

Sometimes it feels like I’m already forgetting how she felt to hold and what she sounded like 😔

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago

I’m calling the help lines

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 5 points 1 day ago (4 children)

spoilerI’m having really bad grief panic attacks and am genuinely not okay.

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It is! I was so worried what would happen if I moved away or got too sick to look out for him.

Still I don’t think he’s getting proper care 💔 I hate it when people get pets and ignore them.

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I’m glad some of it helped. I definitely spend my fair share of time in (not) cleaning hell. Trying to catch up now myself.

I can’t stand for too long but sometimes it helped to put my phone on a mini easel I got from ebay and watch/listen to something while I washed in short chunks. Strongly advise putting it somewhere it can’t fall into the sink tho. I put it on the kitchen windowsill but well to the side

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Agreed, I just prioritise rubbish, ~~litter trays~~, dishes, anything that will smell or attract bugs. Those need quicker action than folding or ironing

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah, like I said, no boundaries. Picking a piece of thread off my jacket with their fingers while I was wearing it.

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[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I feel you.

Unsolicited advice on emergency/exhaustion cleaning

When I get like this it can help to dump everything in the big tub just to be able to vacuum… but then you have to sort out the tub or it just sits there. But it gets it out of the way so you can do it later.

Another way to gradually and easily declutter is to hang a plastic or paper bag on a doorknob and throw in a single unwanted item anytime you happen to find one. (I kept one on the wardrobe handle to immediately take anything I tried to put on and then decided not to keep.) Then when the bag is full donate. You can have multiple through the house.

Clean laundry I just pile into the ‘clean’ basket to pull from as needed or shove handfuls of the appropriate clothing into each drawer. I don’t always have the ability to put things away but I can shove them in the ‘general correct area’ or ‘contained’ and move on to more urgent tasks. I can always put them away properly later if I have the opportunity.

Disinfectant wipes or baby wipes are good to wipe up something sticky before sweeping or quickly go over a dusty or dirty surface as a stopgap.

I still hate the countertop dishwasher I invested in because it doesn’t clean to my standards but that is currently being used as the alternative to having a pile of rotting depression dishes.

Before I’d fill the sink with boiling soapy water and everything dirty, let it soak until it was just tolerably hot to wash… but if not done that runs the risk of a sink full of swamp water.

Stick vacs are not always great compared to full sized vacs, especially cordless ones. Cordless battery ones can run down fast and be weak. But they also are a lot easier to just grab for a quick pass when you have 5 seconds worth of motivation. You can use them on hard floors too, just swipe over the whole area.

When I empty the bin and have to replace the bag, I often put on multiple bags at once while I’m already doing it. It sucks but that way the next time I lift out the rubbish it’s already lined again ready to go. If I don’t do that I procrastinate and rubbish starts piling up on the counter…

Buying roach baits or making them from a 50/50 mix of sugar and borax in tinfoil ‘bowls’ helps if you’re living in an area where they tend to invade.

Pottering around semi-aimlessly cleaning in one area can help. Doing it drunk or high may help (though I unfortunately can’t have substances).

You don’t have to get it all done at once either. You can do 10 minutes or UFYH has mini challenges. (Watch out for the ads on the site tho, yeesh. I need to update my adblocker.) https://www.unfuckyourhabitat.com/

Also while high in sodium I always used to use tinned chunky soup as an emergency meal. Microwave in a bowl and serve with buttered bread, or even eat out of the tin if it’s that bad. Meat and veg with minimal cooking or cleanup

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I don’t know, I kind of just asked if there was an owner or anyone looking after him and then kinda scrammed because the neighbour was offering to bring cat food to my house and picking lint off my clothes 😬

He has other people looking out for him at least. Even if his owners might not be :(

Edit: Oh! Yes he has water available here (the wildlife water) but I haven’t named him. I just found out he has owners too

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago

It’s ok. You’re trying to comfort your girl 🫂

 

Yarrabyte is taking a self care day

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by melbaboutown@aussie.zone to c/foodaustralia@aussie.zone
 

Interesting watch. I’m too young to have got the bread and dripping and didn’t have chokos but some of these are definitely familiar and weren’t bad.

Edit: They forgot the bread and butter pudding and the golden syrup dumplings.

 

If you have a surplus of lemons

 

This is a cheap way to have a big jug of cold drink that isn’t just plain water. It can be black or green tea and you can add lemon slices

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Heatwave warning (aussie.zone)
submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by melbaboutown@aussie.zone to c/melbourne@aussie.zone
 

Ok, it looks like a heatwave is coming this week from Tuesday to Friday?

Different sources (my UV warning app and search engine preview sourced from Apple Weather) especially put Wednesday at 40C and Friday at 35C.

Is that what you guys are seeing? BOM site doesn’t seem to work properly on my phone to check this reliably but be warned I guess.

Make sure to have icy poles and drink enough, get your ice cubes started. Check on the elderly, make sure your cooling is working if you have it, keep pets inside and make sure they don’t get heat stress or burn paws on asphalt when they go on a walk.

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Mango chicken curry (www.ausport.gov.au)
submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by melbaboutown@aussie.zone to c/foodaustralia@aussie.zone
 

I used to love this one, a very mild fruity curry. Fine for kids.

Don’t worry about getting hold of apricot nectar or couscous as substitutions are very easily made. I used to use orange juice instead and serve it over rice. I think I’ve seen generic brand tinned mango.

Chicken thighs could also be used instead of breast (if you’re willing to skin and cut them into strips or pieces) to make this dish cheaper.

Edit: If meat is still too expensive you could also just add browned cubes of pressed tofu or a handful of cashew or peanuts, or pad it out with broccoli

 

It’s soup weather. I can’t have tomato or cheese anymore but am randomly craving minestrone.

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