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So far, I am enjoying PieFed.social and there are features on it I wish I had before. Originally, I joined KBin.social but KBin ended up being abandoned because the owner had health issues. So I moved to both MBin and Lemmy. Things were going good for a while, but, sometimes I would unintentionally attract the ire of antagonizing users from certain instances. This is not my first account in the fediverse, this is probably my 8th or 9th go at this.

I would last about 1 - 2 months at most before I ended up deleting the account because of the toxicity I was facing from a handful of users. I would get tired of having to individually block them whenever they came up, because they were usually from about a couple of instances that just seemed to have the most toxic users from. Least from experience.

PieFed at least gives me the ability to block entire instances, which is crazy to me. I don't mean to say that everyone is a bad apple from X instance, I'm not going to talk of what they are. It's just, there were enough bad apples to where I warranted myself in blocking that instance because they've given me the most trouble and ruined my experiences numerous times in having a nice, engaging and healthy time on the fediverse.

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[–] Tuuktuuk@nord.pub 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Heh, PieFed has been around in a usable form for less than one year now. It's a pity it wasn't around when you joined the Fediverse, but now it is. I believe chances are it will eventually overtake Lemmy in number of users. That should also probably speed up Lemmy's development quite nicely, which would be nice as well!

[–] Sunshine@piefed.ca 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Watch the sweat crack in the tankie quarters once we hit 10k mau!

They got really emotional when the user base exploded in thousands of new signups.

[–] ALF839@piefed.social 2 points 18 hours ago

I'm new here, which instance is the talkie quarters? Piefed seems fairly balanced and welcoming, which I can't say for other alternative socials I've tried.

[–] Blaze@piefed.zip 12 points 1 day ago

Nice to hear you enjoy Piefed. Being able to block entire instances at the user level is indeed quite nice. There is also a built-in keyword filter if you want, and personal feeds can be helpful to keep track of different interests

[–] marighost@piefed.social 4 points 22 hours ago

Lemmy is fine from my experience (I have an alt on lemmy.zip, even), but the devs seem to have some really questionable political leanings.

Piefed feels like it's for everyone, and Rimu and the team are incredible at keeping this place running.

[–] CathyBikesBook@piefed.zip 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've only been on Fediverse platforms since January, but I like it so far. I'm on Mastodon(mstdn.plus) and PieFed.zip.

[–] Blaze@piefed.zip 3 points 1 day ago
[–] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 23 hours ago

I used to wish I could block a specific instance. I used to think everyone on this instance was a troll. I've seen more of their people, and I no longer feel that's the case. I'm not sure my Lemmy experience would be better without this instance, though I don't think they are actively making it better by not being blocked. They just... are.

I really only block people who harass me (multiple rude messages) and who exclusively post stuff I don't like to see. I browse /all exclusively, so I see a lot of stuff and thus, block a lot of communities. But sometimes people go from communities dedicated to things I don't like to see, into more general communities to, I guess recruit? I dunno. So I block them. It's nothing personal, they might be lovely people IRL, but their main game is posting stuff I don't wanna see, so I just hit block. (I often wish they don't know I did it because I try not to spread negativity. Though I think we all do a little of that from time to time, I try to be conscious of the energy I'm putting out there.)

I only heard about PieFed after I joined up, but I hear the instance I use is going to offer (or has offered?) a PieFed instance. Maybe someday I'll look into switching.

[–] Tuuktuuk@nord.pub 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Hm, this makes me think: An ability to grey out or even more aggressively hide posts from user/instance that I have blocked, but still without completely deleting them, would be very welcome to me!

I could decide to read the shit if I really want to, but I could also easily recognize those comments as something I do not really want to interact with, and proceed to other comments.