For some people itβs inevitable.
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No. It happens often.
The very contractions that are part of orgasm make it easy, not difficult.
yeah, from experience i would say first you contract, and with the orgasm you relax - i learned in school that an orgasm is initiated when sympathicus and parasympathicus reach equilibrium, which would probably mean "muscles go limp" - heard that in the late 90s from my biology teacher, who i hold in high regard, but even he can be wrong, so no guarantees here
If you've got one in the chamber, it's gonna happen.
Was that some movie line or something I remember from ages ago? I have no idea where I remember seeing it. Like, some professor inappropriately put a female student on the spot, asking her what happens to the other sphincters in the body during orgasm. I think I saw that line while walking past a room where someone else was watching it. I just recall thinking 'interesting question.' Seems like the answer was relax but... my dubious memory, plus super dubious source.
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