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Something to do with contractions

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[โ€“] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No. It happens often.

The very contractions that are part of orgasm make it easy, not difficult.

[โ€“] Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus 2 points 1 week ago

yeah, from experience i would say first you contract, and with the orgasm you relax - i learned in school that an orgasm is initiated when sympathicus and parasympathicus reach equilibrium, which would probably mean "muscles go limp" - heard that in the late 90s from my biology teacher, who i hold in high regard, but even he can be wrong, so no guarantees here