Lesbians

Just only bring it up when you're talking about sex already, and treat people like people, and it's fine I think. Worship and voyeurism aren't that weird in the fetish landscape. It's when you treat people like they aren't entirely human outside consensual sex stuff that it's a problem.

I do like lesbians. I don't know what lesbian supremacy means. I don't really think one way of loving is superior to another. I just prefer lesbians because that's just how I like it. I would like to live in a lesbian paradise but I think in general there's a lot to be done to improve the lot of all people.

On the other hand I do think that queer women feel pressure to hide their sexuality and interest. The fear that if they express their desires they would make others uncomfortable.

I think the point of lascivious lesbians is to be a place where lesbians can openly express their desire for other lesbians, the depths and throes of our passion. A place where we can reveal and revel in our shared love of queer intimacy.

Even aside from broad societal issues of fetishizing lesbians that this might trigger similarities to, being put on a pedestal is almost always alienating and self-consciousness inducing.

I like you!

i think it would be pretty cool for you to ask them to sign a pride flag though. be normal about it, but they'll be flattered. it's a cool project

I can't give any advice on how to share this with dates, but I can provide reassurance: I have this little project in my head (and partly written down, there are many, many drafts) that's about a matriarchy where heteroromanticism is forbidden and women are kind of the "royal class". That makes lesbian relationships the highest regarded in that world and as a result of the high status of women, lesbians especially live in abundant luxury. A man touching a woman uninvited is punishable by death; touch by a woman is sacred.