All you can do is remember the rage, and when you finally get out sunder him from your life. Burn the bridge and be free.
this post was submitted on 08 Jan 2026
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that sux brooo i hate transphobessss ;-;
once you turn 18 though, you can take all the T you want.
if it were me, it may not be the best advice, but go along with him being a girl maybe in front of ur *i mean dad but still try to avoid using pronouns unless you have to. then, thinking you're hanging out with a cis tomboy, he'll allow u to hang out with him and do whatever u want!!!!!
u two can then become manly men at 18+!!!
I'm still dealing with shitty parents myself. What's ultimately helped is distance - spending less time around them and more time with people who won't treat me like garbage. Eventually, after getting used to dealing with stuff without my parents around, I became a bit more confident about my own worth and validity, and less afraid of their disapproval and scorn. I've had to move back in with them recently, and the improvement is really clear - while they've only gotten worse as people, they've mostly lost their ability to make me feel like shit all the time.