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When I was on Reddit I felt like my opinion didn’t matter. But here it just feels more open and free.

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[-] Swiggles@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

It feels like you can join in later. There are not thousands of replies in the first few hours. So commenting or participating was a waste of time before in many bigger subs. Noone would ever see your answer anyway or interact with you, so there was really no point.

Here it feels like you are actually participating in some way. I really like it.

[-] heliumlake@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Yes, definitely. Maybe I feel like my contributions matter more since we are all trying to make this a viable platform? I dunno, but it's definitely more fun interacting here than on reddit.

[-] meyotch@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 year ago

I’m making myself be active here. I’m learning to build my own lemmy instance on a VPS.

I want there to be a sea change in social media. I want an authentic intellectual conversation. I was in college during the usenet era and found it easy to find mind expanding stuff there with a minimum of toxicity.

My hope is the community and software mature steadily together until it is ready to handle a significant influx.

Let’s not reward toxicity. We need to steer the conversation and the software development to reward quality engagement over quantity.

[-] john12@lemmy.sbs 1 points 1 year ago

Feel free to reach out if you have any questions about hosting your own instance. I'm by no means an expert, but it would appear that I have successfully deployed my own.

[-] kthxbye_reddit@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

I‘m way more active here. I want that place to survive and become the new home for former redditors.

[-] pepsison52895@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

I feel like I can contribute more since the communities are smaller, but I haven't had much of value to say. Haven't really found my niche yet like I had on Reddit.

[-] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 year ago

Tip for when Lemmy becomes bigger: Find a niche community that's big enough you get seen, but small enough you get noticed.

[-] aski3252@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I was only active on certain small subreddits, here I am active in more different communities.

[-] smort@feddit.nl 1 points 1 year ago

Me too, but mainly because my favorite small subreddits (hobbies and local) just don’t exist here. :(

Or at least I haven’t been able to find them.

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[-] Illecors@lemmy.cafe 1 points 1 year ago

Absolutely! There's some feeling of ownership now that I can host an instance of my own - I want this platform to succeed, I want to give something back to the open source community, even if it's only a small server.

[-] z3k3lon@lemmy.pt 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I haven't browsed Reddit since a couple of weeks now. I am definitely more active on Lemmy.

[-] Omegamanthethird@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I have been posting more than I ever had on Reddit. Mostly because I got my news from Reddit, but over here I have to bring the news to Lemmy.

[-] kalipike@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

Oh, absolutely! I did a lot of consuming on Reddit, and only participated in a couple specific communities.

Here, I feel far more inclined to actively participate.

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[-] Pyrux@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Only reason I visit reddit now is to see how the dumpster fire is going

[-] TheCommonMan@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Don't be delusional, our opinions still does not matter.

[-] CMDR_Horn@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yes. I'm looking forward to more original content rather that all of the reposts from reddit. I'm not sure when that tipping point will be, but I hope it doesn't have to do anything with poo.

[-] manitcor@lemmy.intai.tech 1 points 1 year ago

back to a level of activity i would call my "normal". hasn't been like this in almost a decade.

I used to be pretty active on Reddit and I kinda became more and more "sour" and unfriendly over there, because the whole community just dragged me down for some reason.

Here, it's like a breath of fresh air and most people are actually quite nice. Topics have finally become more interesting and there's no such thing as an echochamber. Critical thinking seems to be possible here, as well.

So yes, I became way more active again since I'm on Lemmy. Also, I host my own instance and I put a lot of effort into it, so I want it to be in good standing with other instances. Participating in friendly conversations will help with that.

[-] psilocybin@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago

I feel like the nays will be underrepresented bc of selection bias so I'll be one.

So far I have not had the same engagement. But I am convinced that is bc I have yet to get used to the jerboa UI/UX. I am more active once I feel at home, was the same for reddit, is the same for lemmy.

Its great that you feel more impactful on lemmy! I think on reddit you either feel the way you have or are constantly being called a slur (say "tankie") and removed/banned left and right.

So far lemmy seems way more authentic to me. Less capital interest, PR companies, bots, astroturf, think tank/gov-adjacent hacks. I like that.

Alos writing this made me realize my mode of commenting is still very much a reddit one

[-] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

I'd mostly comment on shitposts, and there's less here so I feel like I comment less

[-] IrateKnight@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Looking forward to becoming active in the community

[-] Mythril@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I've been surfing more on Lemmy than on Reddit now, but that being said, the niche subs that I was "most active in" are just not available/big enough in any of the Lemmy instances I've found, so I end up not really commenting much here compared to on Reddit.

[-] eleitl@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yes. I gradually disengaged over the years. I will become less active once the pump is primed. Perhaps turn to more technical aspects, as maintaining my own instance. Or be more offline in general.

[-] ellesper@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I feel more obligated to contribute here because I want Lemmy as a whole to be more active. More content = more users.

[-] Sarcastik@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Same, but I'll admit I'm trying to enjoy my last remaining days on Reddit to the fullest.

[-] BendyLemmy@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I'm not sure it matters more TBH... but I basically stopped Reddit for 2 days, and now just get drawn back to read the occasional post - but don't bother commenting.

With the downtick in Reddit, I remembered that I hadn't read a book for a month or two, so I headed over to Annies Archive and grabbed a bunch to add to my Kindle...

So I now downloaded 3 versions of 'Great Expectations' and am reading that book before watching them - but also have "Welcome to the MonkeyHouse" by Kurt Vonnegut and "The Book Thief" grabbed from Annie's Archive.

Basically now I'm spending less than half the time on net than I was before.

[-] lasagna@programming.dev 1 points 1 year ago

Nah. Thankfully my mindless scrolling time has taken a dive, which is an issue I had been meaning to address regardless.

[-] Binzy_Boi@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I used to use Reddit through throwaway accounts. Was never a regular user, and moved away from it over a year ago now. Just stopped posting to socials a lot.

Mental health has gotten better, and I've been more active here than I ever was on Reddit because I just enjoy the vibes the place gives me overall.

[-] G1ZMO_DRAG0N@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Honestly, I'm trying to be more active in here. The whole defederation thing going around has me confused about where my account lives and replicating what's on it. Makes it hard to stay active if I don't know what's going to happen haha

[-] CupDock@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago
[-] PeterPoopshit@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm more active here. You can actually post comments without idiots being toxic about it for no reason. You can actually make posts without them getting removed for no reason. It's great.

Yeah, I mean, I'm not the most active, but I made a sublemmy (I'm still not sure about the naming convention here lol) and that's something I never did on Reddit, because everything was usually already there in some form. I also did it to contribute, because I know that us being active actually counts for something. On Reddit I could go months without posting or commenting. So yes, I'm definitely more active and it feels like you are actually engaging with other people and not just consuming content.

[-] InfiniteFlow@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Undoubtedly! I was always more of a lurker, but I think I've posted as many comments here in the last couple of weeks as I did in 11 years of Reddit... Lemmy is, somehow, much more inviting.

[-] Boozilla@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yes. Got to the point on reddit where I almost never commented because of the ackshually types.

[-] Kiloee@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago

I feel like I am not yet, but I will be. Some of the subs I have on Reddit aren’t here yet, partly because they’re either niche or liked by a lot of people that are less tech literate including their maintainers.

I have gone trough some instances before deciding on my current one and I like the stance of most that are for an active discussion, against mindless downvotes and for overall more communication than social media consumption.

The fact that there is next to no automated account making will also help in the long run I think. It makes it an less attractive target for the bad kind of bots imo.

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[-] EugeneNine@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I'm not very active yet as there are only a few subs that match. Once there are more...

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[-] nii236@lemmy.jtmn.dev 1 points 1 year ago

Reddit quality has markedly deteriorated in my opinion.

Maybe it’s just my imagination.

Basically everything works but the content is less engaging!

[-] ReakDuck@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I feel no difference, I still comment as much as on reddit with the difference that people are more open here and more welcome.

[-] flameguy21@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I've found myself commenting here more because there's less people. Which means they're way nicer and it doesn't feel like I'm just screaming into the void.

[-] Bishma@social.fossware.space 1 points 1 year ago

I'm not only commenting more (because I'm not afraid people will bite my head off for everything I say) I'm also reading a lot more comments in general. I think it's for the same reason, the comment threads seem to involve actual constructive discourse. It's funny that I read fewer posts here than I did at Reddit but I spend a lot more time per post.

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[-] sisyphean@programming.dev 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Here people actually react to what I post and write. And they react to the best possible interpretation of what I wrote, not the worst. And even if we disagree, we can still have a nice conversation.

Does anyone have a good theory about why the threadiverse is so much friendlier? Is it only because it's smaller? Is it because of the kind of people a new platform like this attracts? Because there is no karma? Maybe something else?

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