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When I was on Reddit I felt like my opinion didn’t matter. But here it just feels more open and free.

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[-] ModdedPhones@lemmy.ml 27 points 1 year ago

Deleted My reddit account , tried all of the fediverse before but always went back to propriety for same reason as anyone else. Everyone is there. With the Reddit exodus I feel this will get the push it needs

[-] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 year ago

Every comment I would make on Reddit seemed to get challenged by someone looking to start a long-winded argument as they were, in fact, the main character of the universe.

I like it here because so far, people are nice. It’s like the first day of high school and everyone just wants to be friends and meet people.

[-] fossilesque@mander.xyz 12 points 1 year ago

No karma competition here. It has a bigger effect on behaviour than you'd think.

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[-] Scooter411@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago

I feel like your characterization of Reddit users as long-winded and contrarian is inaccurate and frankly offensive. Let me write you several paragraphs about why you’re wrong, sprinkled with thinly veiled personal insults and outright harsh commentary about you as a person.

Sorry, just trying to make it feel like our old home :)

[-] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago

Lmao this was good. You forgot to comb through my post history to see if you can make your comment even more hard-hitting by referencing a personal problem I have that was highlighted in a post or comment from 6 months ago 🤪

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[-] Solaire@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

As the antagonist of this thread, I would have to disagree with this statement. I was, initially, very dismayed to see that no one had taken issue with this comment. Alas, here I am, to set things right. Being that most online communities seem to revolve around my person, I thought that I’d share these thoughts that so many of you had been patiently awaiting.

No but fr, huge fan of these communities. The voices that search out an argument don’t seem to gain quite as much traction on fedi (yet, at least). Probably due to them having a larger overall audience on reddit to feel validated by. Hopefully it stays that way!

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[-] nameisnotimportant@lemmy.ml 13 points 1 year ago

I am because I feel it's great to be a part of the growing numbers of the platform. Everything is a bit rough around the edges and it gives it a 'far west' feel

[-] Ignacio@sopuli.xyz 6 points 1 year ago

This instance is not big enough for the two of us.

[-] Raxiel@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Gonna have to buck the trend and say, no.

I had good experiences on Reddit, I was active in a few different communities and had good engagement without the 'avalanche of toxic responses' some people here are describing.

I'm leaving Reddit due to the changes at the top, not because of problems at the grass roots.

[-] jep@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 year ago

Same here. Of course there was always the occasional troll looking for a fight, but mostly acceptable to pleasant interactions.

[-] eleitl@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

The grass roots are also wilted, though. All communites decline, unless painstakingly maintained. Not many want to keep doing that on a proprietary, hostile platform. So the overall degeneration is obvious.

[-] solarzones@programming.dev 9 points 1 year ago

I am definitely more active on here than Reddit. I’ve had the same experience as you but I’m tired of gawking at those know it all cockbags. They’ll be here at some point but yeah, it’s a nice community here.

[-] Seasons@lemmy.fmhy.ml 8 points 1 year ago

Been trying to go out of my way to be more active on here. Help the platform grow ya know?

I usually lurk for months at a time then comment once or twice a year on any forum.

[-] Thoxy@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 year ago

I surprise myself that I'm more active on lemmy than on reddit.

[-] meekah@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

The users aren't as toxic, so it's much more fun to participate.

[-] 1337admin@1337lemmy.com 7 points 1 year ago

I was a 10 year lurker on reddit. Now I have my own Lemmy instance

[-] Xer0@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

The issue with reddit is that it turns everyone into know it all assholes. The discussion is absolutely horrendous over there. Here it's so much better and more sensible.

[-] eleitl@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Make no mistake, it will also happen here over time. Unless admins and mods work hard to prevent it. Some instances will do better than others.

[-] i_love_FFT@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Same thing here, half my comments on Reddit attracted shallow arguments, the other half hour ignored. Less than 1% lead to real discussion.

Here, half my comments get ignored, the other half lead to real discussion, i like it!

[-] Secret300@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

100%. I've always been a lurker but on lemmy, and I don't know why, but I feel more comfortable interacting and making comments. Haven't made a post yet. Maybe one day

[-] OdinsonThor@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago

I'm definitely trying to be, which isn't difficult considering that my last comment there was a year ago, and I only made 5 comments that year.

I'd been on reddit for 11 years, and I was more active back then, but I sort of started to just lurk more as time went by, probably because there was an ocean of comments in every post

[-] martini1992@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

I am, absolutely, less intimidating. Remember there are literally dozens of us.

[-] clausetrophobic@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

I feel like I have seen more conversations on Lemmy about Reddit than original content

[-] onlinely@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

Not yet. My niche communities don’t exist in the fediverse yet like they do on Reddit, and I do not have the bandwidth to start new communities right now. Excited to watch it grow and continue to contribute where I can.

[-] minorsecond@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Yes. It’s far less hostile here and I don’t fear getting downvoted to hell for asking a question.

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[-] annabanana@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I am definitely feeling more motivated to participate here. It feels like a very welcoming environment so far.

[-] robonps@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Lemmy just feels better to comment/interact with. I just feel more motivated to be active on here.

[-] MazeMouse@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

I think I'm about as active here as I was on Reddit. Always was more of a reader.

[-] Aarlog@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I wouldn't say I'm more active in terms of posting and commenting, though I wasn't too active on Reddit the last few years to begin with. Though the fact I haven't logged into my Reddit account of 10 years since checking out Lemmy speaks to how at-home I feel here, even after basically giving up one of the sites I used the most in the past decade or so.

[-] Daisychan@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Yes! English is not my first language, so commenting on Reddit made me nervous. I find Lemmy to be more forgiving (if that makes sense?) as well.

[-] MusketeerX@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Yes because:

  1. I want to see it take off and want to do my bit
  2. It feels like a more chilled environment in which to participate
[-] deathbypizza@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Have recently made the jump from Reddit. With a brilliant 3rd party app - go figure!! I expect to be more active here.

[-] writerlygal@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

I certainly do! Reddit was just too loud in every way.

[-] meyotch@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 year ago

I’m making myself be active here. I’m learning to build my own lemmy instance on a VPS.

I want there to be a sea change in social media. I want an authentic intellectual conversation. I was in college during the usenet era and found it easy to find mind expanding stuff there with a minimum of toxicity.

My hope is the community and software mature steadily together until it is ready to handle a significant influx.

Let’s not reward toxicity. We need to steer the conversation and the software development to reward quality engagement over quantity.

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[-] heliumlake@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Yes, definitely. Maybe I feel like my contributions matter more since we are all trying to make this a viable platform? I dunno, but it's definitely more fun interacting here than on reddit.

[-] Crylos@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

1000%!

I actually created a community for a hobby of mine, and have been trying to post and comment more.

[-] Dr_Wu@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I want to comment more but I often don't have much to say. I've made it a goal to comment more though, because I want to see this platform succeed.

I love the enthusiasm in this thread but if we the mass migration of reddit users that I am hoping for, the toxicity and annoying reddit behaviors are probably coming along with them. I am hopeful that this place will at least stay much more open and free.

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