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[–] GissaMittJobb@lemmy.ml 100 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

Yep, that's leptin resistance for you. Obesity is really a hormonal condition, and this is why GLP-1 inhibitors are so effective - they actually treat the hormonal condition and allow the recipient to manage their food intake without having their body hormonally work against them.

A layman's explanation (to be clear, I am the layman) of my best understanding of the subject:

Hunger is controlled by 2 hormones:

  • Ghrelin, which causes hunger and is produced by the stomach
  • Leptin, which suppresses hunger and is produced by fat cells

As fat cells accumulate, leptin levels also increase, but a person that has developed leptin resistance will not feel the appropriate amount of hunger suppression from the leptin, leading to chronic hunger unless large energy intake is sustained.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

Yeah I think I have a normal appetite, my kids will laugh at me when I say I'm not hungry because I ate a big meal, they say "that was hours ago" but I stay full, or not hungry, my body wants to weigh more than I personally want it to (have BMI of 22) but doesn't want to weigh more than it does now I guess.

So I understand when people say they used to be hungry and the drugs made them normal, it's not a willpower thing, I don't have to use willpower, just am not that hungry, naturally.

[–] SkaveRat@discuss.tchncs.de 30 points 1 week ago (3 children)

The annoying thing for me is, that I feel the urge to eat something, even though I don't feel hungry

I feel it's a trained habit from eating snacks and dinner while watching stuff in the evening

It's a "I'm not hungry, but having a tasty dinner or snacks to watch this show would be great" urge

It's super annoying, because ADHD meds already take care of most of my hunger feeling, but getting rid of that conditioning feels a lot harder

[–] exasperation@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 week ago

My "food noise" in my brain slows down a lot when I reduce my carb intake. I tend to eat fewer calories when I'm not eating as many carbs from processed foods (including bread, pasta, white rice). If I limit my carb sources to higher fiber, higher protein foods, I tend to naturally eat significantly less, and can go a lot longer before feeling hungry.

I'm not sure how the insulin, leptin, ghrelin, and blood sugar levels play into all of it, but I know that I generally stop thinking about food as much when I'm not eating too many processed carbs.

[–] Sc00ter@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 week ago

Im right there with you, but with beer. I used to have a beer or 2 every night after everyone was in bed. Sit down in the basement and load up a game or show. Decided to stop doing that, and had no urge to drink through out the day, but as soon as id go downstairs and fire up the games, id reach for beer that wasnt there. It was purely habit at that point for me.

As others do to curb their snacking habits, i just dont buy it, because that urge doesnt exist during the day

[–] Cort@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It's a "I'm not hungry, but having a tasty dinner or snacks to watch this show would be great" urge

The Japanese have a word for it: kuchisabishii 口寂しい - lonely mouth.

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[–] lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 27 points 1 week ago

I learn so many great things from reading the comments in Lemmy greentext posts.

[–] stray@pawb.social 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Does either of those cause/prevent actual starvation feelings, like headaches and fatigue? Do they influence your non-exercise activity thermogenesis? (ie, feeling like you need to sit while you wait for the bus instead of standing or pacing) Or is it just a vague munchiness?

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[–] Eyekaytee@aussie.zone 100 points 1 week ago (5 children)

losing weight is so simple (just eat less) but so fuckin difficult (it is insanely difficult to eat less)

when I get below my average weight (85kg) say down to like 80kg, my body acts like it's dying

[–] InternetCitizen2@lemmy.world 52 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Big part of this is to eat healthy. Fruits and veggies aren't as calorie dense as junk food, so you can still eat enough to feel full(ish as you still need calorie deficit)

[–] TootSweet@lemmy.world 40 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Can confirm. Eating healthy helps a lot. The first time I tried to lose weight, didn't change what I ate, just how much I ate. So I was still eating crappy, completely non-nutritious food. Just less of it. I plateaued well before reaching my target weight, was desperate to eat all the time, felt like shit, got frustrated, gave up, and gained all my weight back.

The second time, I did better. Ate healthier, but still not as well as I could. But I got down to my target weight and kept it off for a good long time.

Now, I keep my weight at my target weight mostly without thinking about it. I eat healthy, but not specifically for the purpose of keeping my weight at a good level per se. More because... well I want to be healthy.

Moral of the story, try not to fixate on your weight. Eat healthy for your health. Health is about more than just your weight. And being healthy will help you meet your weight goals more than losing weight will help you reach your health goals.

My final point. I'd say there are benefits to making sure your diet includes a lot (and by "a lot" I mean still within your calorie or portion sizes or whatever budget) of healthy fats and proteins. Those set off some triggers in your brain that make you register satiety. Sugar and carbs do that a lot less so.

[–] SkaveRat@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 1 week ago

And healthy food tends to be more fiber rich, which will make you feel fuller for longer

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[–] frog@feddit.uk 26 points 1 week ago

That's understandable. Even when some people eat less, they plateau. It gets harder and harder to lose weight.

[–] sniggleboots@europe.pub 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

it's simple, but it ain't easy

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[–] Dragon@lemmy.ml 13 points 1 week ago

I find that if I just eat less, I start to feel sickly and unhealthy. I learned recently that when you lose weight, like 25% of it ends up being from muscle loss. Started lifting weights and eating extra protein while I diet, and it feels great, much easier. I feel energetic and healthy and the lack of food doesn't bother me so much.

[–] halvar@lemy.lol 12 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Yeah I'm on calorie counting right now and while so far it's going better than expected (started from well above my average weight and just got a deskjob, so I basically don't move all day) in the past I did feel the momentum dying and eventually I always failed and I fear it's coming again.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

This trend, where you feel initial motivation, but then motivation stalls and you fall off the wagon, is why calorie counting doesn't work for most people. You aren't a robot. You do not have an unstoppable iron will. You are human. You get hungry. You get bored. You get flat tires on the same day your friend invites you over for pizza and beer. Stalling out on calorie counting isn't strange - it is what we would expect any normal person to do.

A far better approach is to take a more wholistic approach to health, and let the fat loss follow naturally. Stop focusing on calories. Focus on eating whole foods, mostly food you cook at home. Eat more vegetables, eat more protein, drink more water. Avoid processed junk food. Avoid drinking your calories. Avoid added sugar, white flour, and vegetable oil. Find a couple different kinds of exercise that you find enjoyable, from soccar to hiking to zumba to powerlifting to mui thai, and do them regularly. Get good sleep, and get enough sleep. Reduce stress. Spend more time with friends, and meeting interesting new people. Spend time outside in the fresh air and sunshine.

You're far more likely to lose weight this way, because these aren't a goal to hit by a deadline. They are just little choices to make throughout the day, course corrections you can make now and again, and fun things to do that add to the quality of your life.

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[–] DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works 81 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (9 children)

Addicted to alcohol: Stop drinking. You can't control an addiction so you have to completely stop.

Addicted to cigarettes: Stop smoking. You can't control an addiction so you have to completely stop.

Addicted to crack: Stop smoking crack. You can't control an addiction so you have to completely stop.

Addicted to food: Must be your fault for being weak-willed. Just don't consume so much of that thing that you're addicted to. You can control your addiction. Just stop being a loser...

The literal solution to every addiction is stop it, cold turkey. One Day At A Time. But you can't stop eating food.

[–] vaionko@sopuli.xyz 44 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The literal solution to every addiction is stop it, cold turkey.

Except alcohol, stopping cold turkey after prolonged heavy drinking can kill you

[–] frostysauce@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago

Alcohol and benzos.

[–] Cocopanda@lemmy.world 33 points 1 week ago (2 children)

People that tell people to go cold turkey. Are just as clueless about addiction as the people they're trying to convince. The greatest conquest of my life was quitting cigarettes. It took a process.

Some people can quit cold turkey, most can't. Assume you're part of the majority and take away whatever emotional or social attachment you have to your addiction and gradually reduce whatever it is until it's completely under control.

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[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’m thankful that food has never been an issue for me.

If I eat more than twice a day, I’ll be so sick I can’t stand it. If I’m going to a party or family gathering where food will be served, I skip dinner and breakfast leading up to it so that I’ll be able to enjoy it.

Drugs, alcohol, and cigarettes though. Good god. Lifelong struggle. I’ve been sober from everything but alcohol and nicotine for a decade now. It’s time to get the ball rolling.

I have been in positions where the world forced me to stop drinking for short periods of time. I handled it fine, I just need to make the jump.

I would walk 5 miles in the snow for a single cigarette though. I would fight anyone for the chance to smoke if I haven’t had one for a while. You could catch me in a trap like a wild animal if you just stuck some cigarettes on there where the bait would normally go.

It has been the hardest thing I have ever dealt with in my life. I quit for 12 days one time and got fired from job for cussing the boss out. I lose my head so damn bad when I haven’t had nicotine that it is unreal.

[–] DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I absolutely replaced cigarettes with food. 100% When I quit smoking I filled the void with food. I didn't even realize I was doing it at first because until that point in my life I just ate when I was hungry.

[–] Evil_Incarnate@sopuli.xyz 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

One guy did in Australia. He was 250kg or something and did it with medical supervision. Nothing for about a year other than vitamin supplements.

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[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

The thing with modern food is that we're addicted to sugar (all processed crap has lots, plymus sodas etc.). It's literally a drug and so bad for us the body tried to use it up ASAP (storing any fat in the meantime) when we eat it.

When you eat too much sugar the body will use only sugar to function, and not eating sugar feels instantly like withdrawal/hunger.

So you can quit that crap cold turkey (you need to let go of slow sugars too like pasta, rice, potatoes etc at least until you get over it/found your comfort weight).

It is hard but it is definitely easier than alcohol or cigarette addiction, at least IMO 🤷🏼‍♀️

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[–] Sanctus@lemmy.world 72 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Theres no logical reason for this to be fake but constantly thinking of shoving things in your mouth can definitely be classified as gay.

[–] TheLunatickle@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 week ago

Fake: Anon tried to better themselves

[–] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] whosepoopisonmybutt@sh.itjust.works 34 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 28 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] theOneTrueSpoon@feddit.uk 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"Get your hand on my penis!"

[–] Sonor@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

But Sir, this is a Wendy's

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[–] zartcosgrove@sh.itjust.works 54 points 1 week ago (2 children)

i finally told my doctor that I wasn't able to do it on my own. My whole adult life I've been trying to lose weight, and always felt like a failure. Even when I really buckled down, I'd lose a few kilos, but then put them back on, every time. I have always loved to exercise, but my intake always exceeded my outflow.

A big part of the problem is that I couldn't remember NOT being hungry. Anytime somebody said "do you want to eat?" my answer was always yes. And when in calorie deficit, I would be constantly thinking about when my next meal would be, what I could eat, it was all consuming, if you'll pardon the pun.

Getting medical help has been life changing. I've lost 15 kilos over the course of 7 months and I hope to continue that steady decline. The drugs silence the constant food noise. I feel like this must be what normal people feel like.

[–] RedSnt@feddit.dk 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

15 kg's over 7 months sounds incredibly healthy, well done. I've been a bit skeptic of semaglutide, that it'd result in losing weight too quickly and in an unhealthy manner, but half a kilo a week sounds like it's been going really well for you. Happy to hear!

[–] Zorcron@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago (5 children)

If you’re interested, here are some stats from the approval studies for semaglutide (Ozempic/Wegovy) and tirzepatide (Mounjaro/Zepbound), so you can see how fast participants lost weight over the course of the studies.

In the semaglutide study, participants weighed ~105kg/230lbs at the start and lost about 500g/1lb per week for the first 20 weeks, then it started to level out slowly. (You can skip to figure 1.)

In the tirzepatide study, participants started around 94kg/207lbs and lost about 400g/0.9lbs per week for 24 weeks until the weight loss slowed down. (Reference figure 2).

(These studies aren’t directly comparable to each other since they had different study populations, but this should give you a ballpark idea of how fast people on these meds lose weight on average.)

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[–] Taalnazi@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

What we feel is normally nothing, when we feel hungry (ie not starving, but just need food), we feel a little empty in the stomach, maybe some growling there.

When we feel starving, it is all-focusing the attention on the stomach growling and hurting.

When we have eaten enough, we feel no emptiness, but not overt fullness either. If we have eaten a bit too much, we feel full; but when we eat way too much, we can feel ill.

[–] RickyRigatoni@retrolemmy.com 25 points 1 week ago

"Oh no I want to lose weight by eating less but my stomach is always hurty and I don't like it!"

The deviously diabolical cigarette:

[–] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Even when I got used to feeling hungry all the time while dieting, I never got used to the fact that I was constantly tired and sleepy. I was way less productive than I had been while eating as much as I wanted to.

It was different when I took medicine that messed with my appetite. ADHD medication pretty much made eating optional. I completely lost the urge to eat when I was bored. If I paid attention I would be able to tell when I was hungry but if I was distracted by other stuff I would sometimes just forget to eat all day.

[–] ILoveUnions@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

With adhd meds I couldn't tell when I was hungry but still got more clumsy and hot headed when I was hungry. That wasn't great

[–] Sybilvane@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago

I'm used to feeling sleepy and tired. It's feeling cold that I hate. I'm dieting in the middle of a heat wave and I'm shivering so much!

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[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 week ago (4 children)

For anyone trying to lose weight, that is way too fast to be sustainable. You didn't gain 5kg/mo, and you won't lose it that fast.

[–] Cort@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

About half that is what's recommended for a target. I don't think 5kg/mo is crazy unusual for the first month or two of a diet, but would typically be followed by a plateau. Could also be dehydration from additional exercise, but that wouldn't account for all of it.

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[–] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 week ago

Hunger means it is working.

It is the feeling of your stomach shrinking or something.

[–] lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 1 week ago

Anon goes on a DIIIIIE-it!

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

As much as I try to advise people to be healthy, the easiest time i have had losing weight was pretty much starving myself

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