It's been a goofy ass week and I'm glad it's over
Ethnic Minorities and People of Color
Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color
Why is the title different?
We like to have fun here.
What is this place? A safe space for underrepresented peoples and peoples of color to talk, chill, and vibe.
What are the basic rules of the community?
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Follow Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines. Non negotiable. This is the bedrock and mods will make decisions with this always in mind.
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This community is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This is a safe space where such people can freely discuss their struggles, insight, and thoughts without fear. If you are not, we respectfully ask you do not post or comment here. A future community will be established to allow for racial discussions with a mixed userbase. However, remember, comments here must still respect Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines.
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Irony Racism is still racism. Racism is bad m'kay? We will treat irony racism and bad faith racist satire as racism. Will wield the ban hammer accordingly.
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No sectarianism: This is an identity channel not a channel for you all to complain about why XYZ isn't the "one true leftism". Take that to another place.
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Stupidpol is not allowed. Stupidpol is class reductionist. We are an identity community. Thinking like stupidpol ignores the struggles of the oppressed, their voices, and their need for unique support. Nothing says oppression more than someone saying that the identity you have is "not real" and that if you only thought like them you'd see what your "real" identity is. Mods reserve the right to ban users and content who promote stupidpol, stupidpol memes, and other class reductionist thinking.
FAQ
I don't look XYZ and/or sometimes I can pass as white so I don't know if I can post here. Can I?
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This place is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This includes those of mixed heritage and those who may be "white" but are of an ethnicity that is a minority in their area (i.e. Kurds, etc) If you've experienced oppression due to your identity that is not based on sexual / gender identification, you are welcome here.
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Moreover, for our American audience, we have people from around the world who are "white" but are oppressed due to being a minority in their country. They are and should be welcomed here.
What can I post?
- Anything you think is relevant to the mission of this community. Things will evolve over time.
- Topics and things relevant to EM and POC.
Suggested Posts
- [People of Spice]: Food recipes so others can taste your culture
- [Theory]: Vid/podcasts/websites discussing issues relevant to identity, anti-imperialism, etc
- [News]: Vids/podcasts/websites that talk about current events relevant to EM and POC
Trying to explain shit about the first world to someone from here :broken_heart: it's like when you mention something bad they expect to say but and explain how we're doing it much worse or how it's actually okay there, like one time I was explaining to someone stuff about Nazi Germany and they were saying "but we're worse" after every few sentences.
In the Nuremberg trials Nazis blamed deaths in death camps on pre existing conditions rather than conditions in the camp. Now westerners doing it again using nazi barbies like Ingram. Honestly these people disgust me on a deep level. With climate refugees mark my words the strategy will be the same
Had a weird dream that I was a circus freak and my main gimmick was getting shot and it only hurting like hell instead of killing me. I'm very much aware of how historically circuses displayed marginalized people to white audiences and if I did deeper of the perception of pain white people assign to poc. I do be wondering how much I dissociate the pain I feel because of this reason vs say toxic masculinity. It's probably a mix of both either way I want both of these cops in my head dead so I can feel what I feel in peace. I know I'm never gonna be free of suffering but I don't wanna have to gaslit myself that it's not so bad
Had a weird dream that I was a circus freak and my main gimmick was getting shot and it only hurting like hell instead of killing me.
There's something darkly comedic.
I'm very much aware of how historically circuses displayed marginalized people to white audiences and if I did deeper of the perception of pain white people assign to poc. I do be wondering how much I dissociate the pain I feel because of this reason vs say toxic masculinity. It's probably a mix of both either way I want both of these cops in my head dead so I can feel what I feel in peace. I know I'm never gonna be free of suffering but I don't wanna have to gaslit myself that it's not so bad
perhaps I said my piece too quickly...
My dreams be weird but I do try to digest their meaning and sometimes sitting with them gives me these kinda vibes.
discussions of anti-semitism/islamophobia
I hate how this is a touchy subject even 2 years into a genocide, but in the lightest example, how many Torah books were burnt during these last few years in protest of Israel? How many caricatures of Moses bombing children? I've seen even so called leftists defend actions like this when it was done against the Quran and Mohammed every time Islam was on the news. Hundreds of kids in Gaza got burnt in this holocaust and how many pages of the Torah were burnt. Conflating Israel with Judaism and the spread of anti-semitism in the Palestinian circles... yet no one picked up a book and lit it up.
Now a clarification, there is anti-semitism committed against Jews, they are called slurs, synagogues are sprayed and attacked by Nazis who I don't think even know Israel exists or is committing crimes right now... Or maybe they do, I'm not talking with Nazis to know that.
The irony is Islamophobia increased in the past 2 years
Hmm, now to think, I haven't heard of such things done against Jews that were done against Muslims...
A lot of westerners take middle east's casual racism, sexism and homophobia as a sign of Israel's progressiveness, when in reality the zionist entity is a competitive player, putting gay people in prison is a rookie move when you can black mail them into doing terrorism and being informants [insert clever way to include how female IOF soldiers that are available for marriage are presented during birth right tour].
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It's White Man's Burden: 2025 edition
(please ignore how racist, sexist, homophobic, classist, antisemitic, and transphobic the west is towards its own population)
A lot of westerners, unfortunately, really have fallen for the lie that the Global North is more "advanced" in terms of LGBTQ+ rights, women's rights, etc. than the Global South. Pinkwashing would no longer be as handy for deception if more of them knew this wasn't the case. The West is quite clearly still incredibly bigoted towards anyone who isn't white, cishet, a man, etc.
it's interesting watching still fall on the pink washing argument as they strip it, another legistlation that makes transitioning even harder while condemning starving Gazans.
Glad Hulk Hogan dead but annoyed with all the white people on saying "I don't agree with his views but you're a piece of shit for celebrating his death" dear lord the amount of
giving a shit about him is astounding. Like you're clearly defending him if you keep asking for us to respect him after he died for his family like nah no dice.
Trying to decipher how much of my personality is appeasement mannerism come about from being big and brown and folx idk sometimes I feel bad for experiencing emotions that could be seen as threatening and it's just exhausting. Definitely feels like I'm playing a stereotype for acceptance and a pessimistic part of me tells myself people just keep me around to feel better about themselves.
The struggle is real with being perceived as threatening for having normal upset emotions.
a person with white guilt will never reach the level of a self hating poc/third worlder, not even comparable.
why do so many people get away with being so vocally "pro-Palestinian" and "anti-genocide" but you work at IBM/Microsoft/PwC/insert other company that directly contributes to the genocide ??? how are you so SHAMELESS?
rant about non-vegan bullshit in medicine
I fucking hate how medications are not vegan. Basically, every single medication is tested on animals, and a lot of them contained animal-derived ingredients. I'm going to see if I can get some sort of animal-free version of my meds, but I probably can't sweat it too much if I can't. I'm also getting my HRT and antidepressants covered by a trans charity who works with a local pharmacy of mine, so I really don't financially have access to external sources that might have a solution for this. Ugh.
there needs to be an option to filter out american opinions from the internet. i need to get behind that great wall.
Seeing white Americans hating HOA is nice but attributing it to sexism (Karens) instead of their own racist ass practices does make me angry ngl. Not gonna defend either but gonna enjoy watching them fight
just when i thought i'd seen everything, i see this tweet. how do you americans all feel about this.
I'd argue America invented racism, at least systematic racism
I still blame Trotsky for inventing racism.
Country that is the chief in exploiting poor countries and sanctions 60 percent or more of the poorest nations (my country included), has shit like monroe doctrine, has nationalist in office and white nationalists party, flags of confederates flown all over the place which would be seen as treason almost any other place in the world given the history but racist brainworms keep normalising it. Even with the layman's how many convos or jokes with em eventually turn racial? Twitter is shite but the delusion is all over.
Edit to add they've managed to demonise Muslims to an extreme degree despite their country being the one contributing to millions of their deaths. No one right now has the numbers they have (tho not for lack of trying)
Don't forget Manifest Destiny and the ~~reservations~~ concentration camps that they've made for the people who were living in the country before they set foot in this country.
pretty much every minority i've ever known here has stockholm syndromed themselves into bootlicking just for a taste of adjacency to white people, or has been completely forgotten, abandoned, ostracized, hurt, or killed. not sure it gets more racist than that, it's extremely sinister the way they've convinced people if you're not getting called slurs just for stepping out the house then racism doesn't exist. and the slurs come around anyways
Even some of the empoc I know who recognize that systemic racism is an integral part of the American experience act like America could be reformed into being the "melting pot" that the propagandists claim it is. You don't reform a country so deeply seeping in the blood and suffering of people of color, you fucking destroy it and make something that is truly representative of all people.
remind me of this recent video. A good one https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pZqQGHJRSi8
I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:
White Americans live in a bubble
I'm getting back on the plant based wagon after falling off for a long while. Feels really great. It's been a work in progress for a while, but most of my meals are starting to be plant based and it makes me happy 😊
I'm stressed about mass deportation, but still doing my best to get out there and resist ICE despite being part of their target demographic. I figure being out in front is safer since I can at least partially set the terms of engagement. I really don't want to be blindsided, I've already accepted that bad shit will happen. I just don't want it to be a surprised when it finally does.
I hate the white cracker treat brain. "I come here to escape real-world problems." Motherfucker, if you can turn that part of your brain off, it's not really a problem for you, is it?
I do not get the privilege of telling the cops "Yeah I don't feel like doing a racist ableism right now. Can we reschedule this for Thursday?" with them responding all "Okay that works for us, too! We'll be back to do our racial profiling then! Please meet us again right here."
If I can't rely on the people in this space to not whine about how something happening is affecting their ability to consoom without thinking about the thing, it means I have to keep my guard up. You get to zone out, while I have to go through the effort of watching what I say in case some fuckwad thinks it'd be funny to send false reports to ICE/the FBI/local police/Social Security Admin/the IRS as the least harmful scenario that could play out.
The manager for the job referral finally got back to me and wants to schedule an interview!
To the Americans here, if you're given a choice of immigrating to another country, anywhere you desire, and never coming back, would you take it? I was wondering why everyone around me kept reassuring me that things will get better after a few years, but then I realized they were either whites, church-goers, or 🍊 supporters.
I think things are bad globally, minus a few countries, and there's no actual escaping. But if things get really bad I'm going to my parents country.
It'd be tough for me. Even outside of the context of the current environment here, I've always told other people from the same background as me that I could never really see myself moving back to my parents home country. Even though their country is a short plane ride away, my dad would make yearly trips and leave us here, unlike how other kids I knew who would go every summer. So I don't really have a deep connection and even as an adult I've never really felt the desire to reconnect. And it has its own history seeped in the exploitation and blood of POC so its like... I'd be trading the US for a nation that, under the influence of the US, hasn't had a vastly different history aside from being exploited by the US all the same.
If I absolutely saw myself in a situation where I had no choice at all then the only place I could think of is Cuba.
The smart answer is "Hell yes".
I am not smart. I am territorial. I get very attached to what I know and love and do not want to leave it. I am probably autistic.
I had asked myself this question in 2015 and 2016 because Trump was so scary. The wave of genocidal white supremacy he was riding looked so powerful, and I thought that staying here might mean death. I had a friend in Canada urging me to move up with her. But I thought about it, and the answer I arrived at was basically, "this is my home, this is my land. The insects I love will not be somewhere else. The birds I love will not be somewhere else. The trees I love will not be somewhere else. The people I love will not be somewhere else. Sure there's probably other good things elsewhere, but it's not what I've known my whole life. This is my home, and if I'm given a choice between dying to stay here and living somewhere else, I will die here, and I'll take as many of the fuckers who want to expel or kill me with me when they come for me."
A ridiculous sentiment for the child of two people who are halfway across the world from their homelands. But I'm not my parents. I'm me. And even though my life has fallen apart here, this is still my stance. I just don't want to leave.
This is gonna be a weird thing to say, but I can't trust most feminists to be "misandrists" or "man haters" responsibly.
To clarify what I mean by this: Obviously, I, of all people, get saying things like "I hate men," "I hate white people," and/or "I hate straight people" out of seeking catharsis about the grievances you have with people in privileged positions acting like shit. I'm basically the leader when it comes to complaints about cracKKKers
However, my issue is that, like I said, I can't trust mainstream feminists to do this responsibly. What I mean by that is that I can't expect them to do in a way where they're actually making a systemic critique rather than just leaning into some extremely individualistic framing of the matter that inevitably pans out as essentialist bullshit that endangers trans people and POC.
For this reason, I get skeptical a lot when I see "man-hating" content online—not because I disagree with the message itself, but because of the way this message has been exploited. I don't expect your average person who yaps on social media (or IRL for that matter) to actually be revolutionary and educated about oppression from a systemic perspective.