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I am a cis guy, but have been questioning who I am and have a desire to be more feminine.

I have done a work week with eyeliner for the first time and it has made me feel much more confident! I only had one girl at work notice and she has been very supportive of it and other things (I had begun growing out my hair and dying it differently).

This felt like a supportive community to share this happiness with and I feel in a good place here because my wife is trans and I have begun questioning who I am as well.

Thanks for reading :)

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[–] Szyler@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago

I started with mascara and got the same kind of feeling and reactions. Been thinking of trying eyeliner next :)

[–] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 day ago

:3 that was my comment im glad its working out for you!

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

fun, I love eyeliner but I only wear it for special occasions these days - I look forward to having more days in the future when I can focus on my makeup.

Your post obviously fits here, but you might also checkout !femboy@lemmy.blahaj.zone too. 😊

[–] fantacyde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago

Oh I certainly will check out that one :) Thank you

[–] Rose_Thorne@lemmy.zip 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Genuinely, good for you! It's amazing how small things can make us feel more like ourselves. I know lip gloss is a huge one for me, I don't know what it is, but I just feel more feminine.

Best of luck on your journey of self-discovery, and remember that whatever lays at the end of the path, you're valid and supported in it. :3

[–] fantacyde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago

Lip gloss will be on my list to try and thank you for the support :)

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Congrats! Hope you enjoy the process of finding who you are!

[–] fantacyde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago

It has been fun so far :) Thank you!

[–] thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] fantacyde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago

Very nice indeed hehe

[–] lwhjp@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, good for you! It's nice to be noticed. Plus eyeliner rocks.

Have fun exploring!

[–] fantacyde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago

I certainly will be. Thank you so much!

[–] happy_wheels@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yay! Super happy for you!!

Eyeliner is fantastic, I love wearing it too! I recently bought some eye shadow and lip stuff from SugarPill, excited to wear it when it arrives! Best of luck with your journey, we're glad to have you!

[–] fantacyde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago

Eye shadow is the next thing to add in and work on :) Happy to be here as well!