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I'm asking for a big raise at work in a couple of hours (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 month ago by LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world to c/casualconversation@lemm.ee

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I'm nervous as hell.

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[–] Nougat@fedia.io 22 points 1 month ago

If you don't get a 100% satisfactory answer, start looking for a new job (if you haven't already). When you resign, do not accept a counter offer from your current employer.

This kind of thing is stressful, because you're trained to work for the company, and by requesting that your labor be compensated for what it's worth, you are working for yourself, against the company. The company wants to extract the most value from you for the least cost. There is no shame in your doing the same for yourself. You should extract the most value from the company for the least cost to you.

It's just business. Leave your emotions at the door. Good luck.

[–] KnightontheSun@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago

You deserve it! Good luck!

[–] Sendpicsofsandwiches@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Go gettem. Remember that in terms of pay, your employer is never on your side, so you have to fight hard for the best pay rate for yourself

[–] kruhmaster@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 month ago

You got this. It's automatic.

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 9 points 1 month ago

If they reject, switching jobs always gets you the biggest raise. Good luck!

[–] rustyfish@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

Go get them tiger!

Don’t forget to tell us how it went.

[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

It went bad. Made a separate post about it

[–] Blaze@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 month ago

Good luck!

[–] maniacalmanicmania@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago

It's in the bag mate.

[–] Elaine@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago

Wishing you the best!

[–] Speculater@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

We support you!!

[–] jim_v@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

So how did it go? I hope you got the raise you deserve!