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Cross-posted from "ADHD gaming" by @Stamets@lemmy.world in !gaming@lemmy.world


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[–] dephyre@lemmy.world 51 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] orbitz@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Processing any shaders...every load time. I guess the upside of spending too much on hardware it doesn't take as long as it could. I definitely ignored Hogwarts Legacy some game evenings cause it did that every time I played, it went away recently though and oddly I finished after being able to play right away.

One of the one games I've finished in like 3 years, which I assume is also an add thing, I don't finish a lot, just try and get my entertainment value and hope for the best after. Currently not wanting to lock into the last mission of cyberpunk 2077 heh.

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[–] mybuttnolie@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 year ago

Life quality improvement tip: disable that from steam download settings.

[–] twice_hatch@midwest.social 40 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Is it ADHD or is it depression 🤔

[–] potatobro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Game: optimizing shaders, please wait

Me: looks at phone

Game: loads into main menu

Me: jams to the main menu music while scrolling for 45 mins

Me: Nah I don't wanna play anymore

[–] ech@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Or you're trying to mod skyrim for the first time in 10+ years and hyper focus on troubleshooting crash after crash for 36-ish hours.

Just a theoretical scenario...

[–] SynopsisTantilize@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago

Are not supposed to just highly optimize our games for 3 hours and then shut the computer off when you get the golden 60-120fps?

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[–] Marzanna@scribe.disroot.org 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't have ADHD but it happens to me sometimes. Because all of these lengthy updates, shader caching, loading of game loader, loading of game, etc. By the time a game fully loads I need to go to bed.

[–] Kazumara@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I played Roller Coaster Tycoon from 1999 recently. That was the exact opposite, and so refreshing. Its an efficient game, which I think it had to be to run well back then with the simulation of 1000 individual guests and the whole park on a Pentium 90 with 16 MB of RAM.

I don't remember how it was back then, but now playing it on a modern computer, it just loads instantly. When I noticed how truly instant it was, I was so surprised that I just switched back and forth between loading two saves for a bit :-)

[–] MothmanLives 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It was written by one dude in assembly

[–] Kazumara@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yeah I know. Chris Sawyer. If I recall correctly he said he had to use a little bit of C to interface with the Windows APIs but the rest is all assembly 😄

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[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I quit playing the Sims 4, I am simply, a builder. I would go on a month binge, then not play for 6months. Sometimes I'd play once a month-

But having to fix my mods every single time I booted was so much. I never had issue finding what was broken, it was just so time consuming. Then after two hours the game would be ready to play, and .. I would be instantly bored, forgot my house plan to the mind vortex, all energy spent, ugh. That game is seriously dead.

I was beyond excited to move from xbox to pc with that game. amazing how it took no time at all for me to hate it.

I also play PvE Rust, it takes like a half hour to load in, and i get a whopping 33FPS. Love that game so much, 20-30mins loading time is fine if I dont have to fix mods like a sleuth every fuckin time I want to play. Just walk slowly so the graphics can load in lmao

I still load into Rust and immediately just, log off often. Hyperfocus just isnt there sometimes. Thats when I load N (it's free and fun!) and play short levels.

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[–] popcorn@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Fucking hate it when this happens

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 year ago

happened to me 3 times in a row two days ago

[–] Bort@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Me but with a half hour setup for a solo boardgame 😭

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 year ago

Im interested in knowing what solo boardgames you like?

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I can never play solo boardgames tbh. If I am going to play something solo, I can play something more complex on the PC. In fact, many of the most popular BGs have very good apps for themselves too. And if one wants to play something specifically boardgamey, things like Slay the Spire exist.

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[–] Snowclone@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's so hard to finish long ass games....

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

...it didn't used to be. It used to be fun. Can I please have that back? Please...? Please...

[–] regdog@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

That is why the first thing I do with ANY new PC game is to disable all those company logos and legal bumpers that are played before you even get to the main menu.

In most cases it is as easy as opening the game's files in explorer and deleting a few files, like "nvidia_logo.bik" or "legal.bik".

[–] Matty_r@programming.dev 7 points 1 year ago

Get a Steam Deck, and you can press the power button whenever you want to stop playing and it puts the system on standby. Press it again and it powers on in a couple seconds right where you left it.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

YES!

I finished downloading almost 40GB of Call of Duty Mobile over mobile data on February 21st. I still haven't played it, and now it needs updates installed for sure.
Yeah, quite a big phone game.

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[–] BossDj@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

Go into menus and clear the red dot notifications. Get my free daily stuff. Then close out

[–] usrtrv@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So my overpowered PC is so I don't lose focus due to loading times.

[–] shadowedcross@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 year ago

Mine loads fast too. Doesn't mean I don't lose interest, just means I lose interest faster. More efficient that way.

[–] Matriks404@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

That's why I like playing older games. You launch them and start playing immediately.

[–] Phoenicianpirate@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

This is why MAME emulation and classic arcade games are so addictive. They were no bullshit. They got you started right away.

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I really shouldve started playing _____. Closes X, boots ____ Dang, I was gonna check something on X...

[–] HK65@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 year ago

I usually only get this when I'm overworked, a few days of staring at a wall usually fixes it until the next overtime wave.

[–] espentan@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I don't really play anymore but occasionally I get the desire to play some Gran Turismo. The last three or four times I've had that urge, both the console and the game required rather large updates. Half an hour later, still not done updating.. desire to play gone with the wind. Rinse and repeat 3 months later.

If a game takes 2 minutes to come to the menu, yes then i do lose interest in the game, not because of ADHD, but because i recognize it's inefficiently coded and probably will hang and lag like crazy later on.

[–] umbraroze@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Which is why I've mostly been a console peasant. PC games are like "So let's spend 5 minutes installing extra shit. And maybe 15 minutes screwing with the settings and fixing compatibility. Oh and are you ready for The Modern Scourge, the Hell that is shader precompilation? We'll be here for a while."

Modern games are a little bit better, but yeah...

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 year ago

I don't know about AAA games, but I play mostly indies and I never have this issue.

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[–] keepcarrot@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

This is an indicator of severe dopamine deficit. Maybe try with a few more games

[–] eugenevdebs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Too god damn true. Some games back on the last two generations took so god damn long to load. GTA V took I believe like 4 minutes to load from cold boot? So I'd be lost in thought, and the bored by the time the game loaded up.

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Thank you lol I post enough here, I didn't wanna crosspost one that I made elsewhere immediately after making one before it

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