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[–] SolarMonkey@slrpnk.net 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I like the smell of jergins shampoo from like 30 years ago. My mom, who died when I was 23, used it when I was growing up, and I haven’t smelled it in literally decades, but I’d know it if I smelled it again, because it’s impossible to mistake for anything else, but you try really hard to figure out what the smell is. Pretty sure it died in the early 2000s (apparently it’s still available but I have no hope it smells the same, because I haven’t had a whiff in so long.. last time was on a bus around 2002)

It had a very unique… tangy? smell that wasn’t floral or fruity or musky or anything. It was just its own very specific smell. Probably all man made chemicals. But it contains volumes of memories.

Interestingly, I still don’t like her perfume (dune from like 1990-2004). I have 2 bottles of it, and I find it very unappealing. It smells like her, sure, but I don’t like it. I sniff the bottle every now and then, for memories. But they are adult memories. The jergins is childhood memories.

If anyone has a really old bottle of jergins floating around, I’d pay money for it..

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

This is a really nice one. Have you tried hitting a big perfume store? Staff might be able to find something similar.

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[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Sunscreen, sun-soaked basil, and new electronics.

[–] pHr34kY@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Nothing beats the smell of a subwoofer on its first run.

[–] kokesh@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)
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[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The first time you fire up a brand new toaster creates this incredible smell that I've only experienced like 3 times in my life.

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[–] AlpacaChariot@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Bit of a weird one, but... freshly peeled parsnips

I could take them or leave them when it comes to eating, but they smell great. Maybe it's a memory from childhood or something!

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 weeks ago

Allll of my partner. Mmmmm.

[–] classic@fedia.io 3 points 2 weeks ago

My sneezes (when I'm not sick)

[–] hilliard@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

oil paint, cigarettes, and laphroaig
[but I had to quit most of those]

[–] loaf@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

A fresh bag of weed, especially ones that are high in limonene.

[–] keepcarrot@hexbear.net 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Wet concrete. Diesel. I think coffee smells way better than it tastes (unlike the other two).

Edit: the top of my cats head

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[–] nebulaone@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 weeks ago

Coming into the house when it is very cold and snowy outside and smelling bread baking in the oven.

[–] peaches@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago

Sun bathed skin, forests(both the humid ones and the dry herby ones), baked bread, lily of the valley flowers, and many other flowers.

[–] Frostbeard@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Ocean pine forest on warm summer days when walking to the sea side/beach.

Fresh bread just out of the oven

That crisp smell of cold fall days, just shy of frost.

[–] XTL@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 weeks ago

Lots of nice smells, but I'll just list a stranger one I like. Dry hay.

[–] rapist1@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Cooking bell peppers on a frying pan. Add onions and it's even better.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 3 points 2 weeks ago

My girlfriend's cooking

[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 3 points 2 weeks ago

Stinky dogs.

They smell like friendship

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago
[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago

New packs of cards when the shrinkwrap is removed.

[–] univers3man@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Napalm in the morning.

[–] bizzle@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Freshly harvested cannabis is my favorite smell, far and away

[–] jbk@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 2 weeks ago

My dachshund's feet. Seriously. They smell something like popcorn sometimes.

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