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What would be the acceptability of this in your workplace? For context, which country and industry are you in?

I guess I'm mainly thinking about professional jobs, but interested to hear from. I think in France it would be quite common to have a glass of wine, even at a work canteen or so. But in the UK it seems like people would think that was a problem, and in a lot of cases you'd be in violation of something at work.

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[–] That_Devil_Girl@lemmy.ml 16 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I'm a welder, and no I would not. It's not allowed on the shipyard. But even if I could, I wouldn't. I'm a professional and I'm working with high power tools & equipment. I need to have a clear head.

[–] doubtingtammy@lemmy.ml 5 points 6 days ago

The trades aint what they used to be πŸ˜”

[–] fubarx@lemmy.world 13 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Software guy. Most productive/distraction free time of the day is mid-afternoon. Drinking at lunch would just take that zone away and push everything to the next day.

Happy to wait till 5pm, or whenever feels like a good time to do a git push.

[–] pupbiru@aussie.zone 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

alternatively, i’ve found the bulmer peak concept to be entirely real: a drink sometimes helps you to just do rather than spending too much time thinking about if what you’re doing is best… it can help with decision paralysis on the micro scale

that said, you can train yourself out of decision paralysis and as someone gets more experienced this is likely to be less and less helpful

[–] Ajen@sh.itjust.works 1 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)
[–] pupbiru@aussie.zone 1 points 22 hours ago

wow yes how was my spelling that wrong and can i blame auto correct?

[–] superkret@feddit.org 3 points 6 days ago
[–] WhatSay@slrpnk.net 12 points 6 days ago

I used to think it was unprofessional. But once I had a few jobs where employees were treated like crap, I changed my mind.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

yeah I like to have around 7 at lunch and then puke and shit and piss all over my desk

[–] andrewth09@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Depending on your company culture, 5 to 10 drinks may be considered the socially acceptable limit for a work lunch. Pissing at your desk is mandatory. Shitting and puking is optional.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com -3 points 6 days ago

your are in Asia also

[–] fishy@lemmy.today 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I work in corporate retail in the USA. It's generally acceptable if you're out of the office on a business lunch. Cracking open a beer in the kitchen at lunch probably wouldn't have any immediate consequences but you're probably looking outside of the company for a promotion.

[–] Sadbutdru@sopuli.xyz 2 points 6 days ago

Lol, yeah I was definitely picturing a restaurant setting. Drinking white cider in the alley on your lunch break, or going to a toilet cubicle with a bottle of vodka, really projects a different image...

[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

When I go lunch I go home for the day. I only work in the morning.

So, no need of alcohol to cope with overwork.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

how?? this is like my wet dream.

[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I work in europe in sector that have signed that we only have to work 35 hours a week. So I work 8 to 15 and that's it.

The secret sauce is that we have massive unions. So we have achieve a lot of labor rights.

You should see my desk is full of propaganda of 4 different unions, and everyone desk is the same, Unions are very present in my sector.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 days ago

im taking a shit

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

In the UK people will definitely have a pint on a Friday lunchtime. Sometimes two in my experience. I haven’t seen it as much in Oz but it’s definitely a thing here.

[–] Sadbutdru@sopuli.xyz 1 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Interesting, what kind of jobs did you see that at in the uk? In my experience manual/ trades would try to finish up early on a Friday to go to the pub, but not have a beer at lunch then go back to work. And in offices it would be frowned on.

[–] nathan@friendica.world 1 points 22 hours ago

@Sadbutdru @NigelFrobisher when I lived in Scotland I worked as a print broker and we absolutely had a pint or two at lunch from time to time.

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 2 points 5 days ago

I work in software/IT and going for a pint on Friday lunch is pretty common.

[–] psud@aussie.zone 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

IT worker in system analysis and design in the public service in Canberra, Australia.

There's no official policy though many of my co workers believe a lunch time drink is not allowed. I have often enjoyed a couple of glasses of wine or a beer at lunch, have never made a secret of it, and have never been told off or warned by anyone above me

[–] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 3 points 6 days ago

At a professional office in the American South, I wouldn't drink alcohol for lunch, but if a coworker brought some into the office, I'd have some.

[–] Firipu@startrek.website 6 points 6 days ago

Where I work, it's a non issue. As long as it doesn't impact your work and nobody notices it (foul odor or behaviour), nobody could care less.

[–] FellowEnt@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 days ago

Used to work in marketing, UK. There was a frew beer fridge, with instructions to only help yourselves after 1630 on a Friday. Beers at lunch were fairly standard on a Friday, less so on other days but not unheard of.

In my past life, I worked as Data Manager in a movie, at the lunch break, everyone would smoke pot as if nothing. I couldn't do it because I can't use computers while high.

[–] andrewth09@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

In the US at a white collar job. 1 (2 max) drinks every once in a long while for a work lunch is acceptable. Depends on how comfortable you are with your coworkers and if anyone else seems willing to drink a beer or two.

[–] blade_barrier@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 days ago

Since I work from home... this is totally acceptable.

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Depends on what drink it is, I think that a beer would be acceptable in most places, hard liquor brobably not.

[–] festus@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 days ago

When I worked for a startup we'd sometimes go out for lunch and everyone would have a drink or two. We also kept beer in the office fridge but that was reserved for more Friday afternoons.

[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 days ago

I've had white collar jobs where champagne breakfast was a thing, and blue collar jobs with heavy equipment where driving with any degree of intoxication had serious consequences but, surprisingly enough, not necessarily dismissal.

Also, decades ago, I worked with skilled laborers who would have a beer over lunch, and with concrete finishers who would drink a case of beer between 2 or 3 people while working. I feel like concrete finishers used to work for a flat dollar rate plus beer. If there was enough beer, they would stay all night long.

[–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Pretty much everwhere I've worked; there's a no alcohol or drugs clause in the employment contract/policies. So officially it's not permitted; but one beer, or a couple hits from a dab pen (weed vape) hasn't been uncommon in most places either; just don't let management see it.

[–] Sadbutdru@sopuli.xyz 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

It gets to be a big liability for the individual then tho, even if the company don't regularly enforce the rule, you're opening up an easy way for someone to get you out of your job if they take a dislike to you sore any petty reason...

[–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago

Ofc, there's always risk when you're going against company policy/your contract.

I'm not saying I recommend smoking/drinking at work; just that it's not uncommon.

[–] vfreire85@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 days ago
[–] temporal_spider@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago

Years ago, I was working on a house where there were several nests of these wicked looking red wasps. I had been working around them all morning quite safely. At lunch, I drank half a beer, and was almost immediately stung twice when I went back to work. I don't know if it affected my timing or my scent, or something else.

[–] toastal@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 days ago

Alcohol is bad for you health. Workplaces should be better so folks don’t feel the need to injest poison to tolerate it.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 days ago
[–] Hyphlosion@lemm.ee 0 points 6 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

No. My job depends on results. Alcohol affects my production. Therefore, drinking on workdays is a very dumb thing for me to do.

Edit: Downvoted because alcohol gives me terrible brain fog and I want to keep my job? Alrighty then…

[–] Kalon@feddit.online 56 points 1 week ago (3 children)

School bus driver here. Drinks at lunch would not be a good idea.

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