Feeling nostalgic for a time period you never lived through.
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A feeling when you have conquered Alexithymia and every feeling feels new and exiting to discover.
Not sure if +1 or -1, because technically I relate, but it's been about 15 years. Nowadays I find new feelings embarrassing and exhausting. Another thing I have to bury so people offline won't find me annoying.
-1 as that was how I felt couple of years ago but the exitment wore off. I sadly no longer feel that way but that time was great. (I have one more feeling to discover for 100% completion rate)
I'm tired
+1 mentally and physically
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Pacing around aimlessly because you feel like you should be doing something, but you have no idea what.
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+1 and you feel that you are forgetting something important, but you can't remember and the deadline of said something keeps getting closer
+1 and you take a nap because it's the only way to make it all go away for a while.
The dread ~1 hour before a social event you agreed to and wanting to not go even if you know you’ll have fun once you’re there.
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Paranoia that you will be accused of something you didn’t do, so you arrange your actions around it to avoid being suspicious, only to fear that will make you suspicious anyway.
+1 spending my youth on Tumblr made me exhausting to talk to because I started adding 1000 disclaimers to everything I say so I wouldn't be accused of random unrelated thought crimes
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+1 me everytime I make eye contact with the door person at the grocery store
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Not particularly liking a piece of music but being addicted to it anyways.
+1 In general I don't like pop music, of any era, but sometimes a single song will stick in my head and will find itself on my playlist anyway.
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Writing something before falling asleep midway through it, only to awaken shortly afterwards, and then feeling like you don't understand how to grasp the rest of what you're trying to write in order to finish it.
+1 (Happens even when I walk away from something though)
+1 and then you’re questioning whether or not your train of thought before you fell asleep was even coherent.
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Feeling like something you see on TV reminds you of the taste of a food you know of just because of the color of said thing on TV.
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