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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by NoStressyJessie@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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She didn’t call, she waited until late in the night and texted. We didn’t talk about the business. We didn’t talk about me coming out, but we talked about our nails and some things going on with us.

We talked about dinner plans, she dead named me, and told me she loved me.

I’m not even mad about the dead Name, I didn’t tell her my chosen name, so she had nothing else to call me, but it was jarring still.

I hope you all had a wonderful night ❤️💕

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[-] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 year ago

It sounds like she’s still processing, which is probably good. No matter what, you should be proud of yourself, coming out is hard and you did it. I wish you all the happiness of living as the person you really are.

[-] EsheLynn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Good luck. Idk what to tell you, what advice to give. Everyone's story is different, with different ups and downs. Just... not to be a Debbie downer, but maybe temper your expectations? You've read my ups and downs, I'm sure. Hope for the best, expect the worst, ya know? I send love, hugs, and support from the other side of the internet.

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