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Cleaning with ADHD is all about momentum. It's like being a shark, if you stop moving you just straight up die.

ADHD is all about momentum.

!It's like being a shark.!< If you stop you just straight up die.

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[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 34 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wake up, do small job

Cleaning mode engaged

Every small job I notice today is getting done on the spot

[–] Atherel@lemmy.dbzer0.com 39 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ok what big task are you trying to avoid today?

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago

Why are you attacking me unprovoked like this

[–] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Agreed. And cooking. You need to keep pace. Then it goes smoothly

[–] BenLeMan@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And that's why I usually cook while doing the dishes.

I call it "wirbling" and imagine myself as the Tasmanian Devil from the Looney Tunes cartoons when I blitz through the house doing all the chores. Once the momentum has been built it's much easier to keep going, even on stuff I've been putting off.

[–] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago
[–] ConstantPain@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

A lot of things people associate with ADHD sound like depression to me.

[–] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago

You wanna know how I got these depressies?

Yeah. I need to finish what I started or I'm going to lose all motivation and lay in bed all day instead

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 year ago

Oh no, I sat down.

[–] sundrei@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 1 year ago

No joke, if I start tidying my room, I won't stop until I've dusted under my couch and scoured my oven.

[–] metaStatic@kbin.earth 5 points 1 year ago

straight up

this is so true X3

[–] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Those blanked out words don't change any of the meaning, they just make the sentence shorter.

[–] Vigge93@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Which makes it easier to keep up the momentum

[–] Caboose12000@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

the removal of the word cleaning is pretty significant imo. it certainly happens this way for me for way more than just chores

[–] HoodieGyaru@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How do sharks sleep if they can't stop moving?

[–] bstix@feddit.dk 4 points 1 year ago

Animals sleeping is a pretty big science. Humans are the outliers on this, because we almost shut everything down while sleeping whereas most animals only shut down partially, and/or for much briefer periods. Our sleeping routine is very much based on being in a group, where someone would keep an eye out while others sleep.

Dolphins sleep with one part of the brain at a time. Some birds do the same, but if they're in a group, the innermost individuals can sleep fully, while the outermost keep one eye open away from the group.

As for sharks, yes, they do require a constant flow of water through their gills to breathe even when sleeping. Either they keep moving or they die, or as one shark was found to do: sleeping against a current.

I mean yeah. Any kid with ADHD simply cannot sit still.

Somehow I did in school, and I was always quiet in school. But when my brother mentioned my son is a carbon copy of me at home growing up.

Oof. I guess I tended to enjoy literally bouncing off the walls too. I used to manage it by bouncing my leg, then somehow that got trained out of me

[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

oi OP your formatting got messed up, you can use \ before the > to fix it:

without

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