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[–] shy_mia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 40 points 3 weeks ago

A great piece of advice in general, not just for the holiday season.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 23 points 3 weeks ago

True anytime, but especially in this season when they may be especially gloating and trying to goad you. A year or two from now, when they're starting to feel the repercussions of the Reich Wing's policies, might be a better time to see them again.

[–] spider@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

"There is a push, I think just a societal norm that if somebody is your family that they are entitled to your time," said Calhoun, "and I think the answer is absolutely not."

This is a really good rule of thumb for dealing with toxic relatives in general.

[–] inclementimmigrant@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago

My wife mentioned that I would be exempt from Christmas with the Trump loving in-laws this year and I'm probably going to take her up on that.

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 11 points 3 weeks ago

I’ve often wondered why I was forced to spend my holidays with people just because our DNA had some similarities.

[–] Sgt_choke_n_stroke@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

I plan on not sharing any information with my inlaws. I used to be jokey, they want concentration camps for illegals. The time to cut them off should of been years ago.

[–] Cybrpwca@beehaw.org 1 points 2 weeks ago

Sometimes the only currency, the only leverage you have with your family is your presence. Don't be afraid to use it for a good cause.