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[-] CodexArcanum@lemmy.world 64 points 6 days ago

As a tall man who likes to walk at night, I have long understood that women alone at night do not wish to encounter me. So when I happen to find myself following a woman down the street, I will either slow down, cross the street, or stop and look at a sign or something for a minute to give her some space.

In a dangerous and shitty world, a person has to find subtle and quiet ways to express care, compassion, and solidarity. It costs me nothing to make a woman feel safer.

[-] Eranziel@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago

This is the way, and good for you.

Purposefully making women afraid they're about to get assaulted is abhorrent.

[-] Hikermick@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

While working i am occasionally in parking garages which can be dark and creepy. If i see a woman walking alone I'll try to make some noise like pulling out my keys. People with bad intentions will be stealthy, hopefully they get that I'm not a threat

[-] glitchdx@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

on the one hand, you're right and I agree with you.

on the other hand, I've got places to be and other people walk so fucking slow.

[-] spicystraw@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

You da man brother!

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[-] Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 6 points 5 days ago

I'm a very tall wardrobe with a resting bitch face syndrom that is also nocturnal. I learned a long time ago to just slow down when behind women and never to speed up. Or just change sides or so.

It pisses me off to constantly being seen as a violent rape-ape instead of a person, but imagining being a woman (or whomever else is frightened by me) in such a situation makes my worries seem more irrelevant.

In a better society this would be totally unnecessary, but here we are.

[-] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 26 points 6 days ago

Amusing if fictional but if in real life, this is seriously messed up

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[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 15 points 6 days ago
[-] ICastFist@programming.dev 4 points 6 days ago

Or tased and pepper sprayed, at the very least

[-] A_Wild_Zeus_Chase@lemmy.world 18 points 6 days ago

Can the incels who posted and upvoted this please stop ruining gender relations for the rest of us?

[-] Soulg@sh.itjust.works 7 points 6 days ago

It's a fucking greentext my guy

[-] A_Wild_Zeus_Chase@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

It could be on Sumerian clay tablets my dude, it would still be about threatening rape for amusement

[-] Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 6 days ago

Have you ever seen !linkedinlunatics@sh.itjust.works? This community is that (mostly) but for 4chan. Upvotes don't mean supporting this garbage.

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[-] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 5 points 6 days ago

Back in the day I lived in the outskirts of the city where buses would run rarely. Many times when I arrived home late a woman would also drop off. They mostly reacted in the same way as OP describes.

I tried to imagine having to be afraid like that all the time and it's horrifying. The planet is populated by animals larger and stronger than you who might, or might not behave violently without provocation.

[-] Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 1 points 5 days ago

How eloquently summarized. Sadly so.

[-] Ragdoll_X@lemmy.world -3 points 4 days ago

I tried to imagine having to be afraid like that all the time and it’s horrifying. The planet is populated by animals larger and stronger than you who might, or might not behave violently without provocation.

That's not a nice way to describe blacks.

[-] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 3 points 5 days ago

Follow-up should be about becoming the manager of a McDonald's and realising that this small amount of authority over people allows you to make their lives miserable.

[-] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I'm not going to rape you. I'm a little boy!

[-] Taleya@aussie.zone 1 points 5 days ago

I've had a couple of arsehats try this on me.

Unfortunately i grew up in a much nastier neighborhood than they did and have a tendency towards violence i have no problems advertising

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