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[-] axont@hexbear.net 33 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Ok now I get why people say she's dismissive of nonbinary people. Trans people are supposed to pass? Like I'm nonbinary and agender. What am I supposed to pass as? A rock?

[-] MolotovHalfEmpty@hexbear.net 26 points 1 month ago

What am I supposed to pass as? A rock?

You rock. 🤘

[-] axont@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago

hexbear-non-binary trans-heart thank you, you're kind!

[-] ExotiqueMatter@lemmygrad.ml 22 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You're supposed to pass through fascist and terf guts

And you all already pass as a bunch of very cute and wholesome comrades

[-] axont@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

cat-trans You're very sweet! I don't get a lot of daily confirmation but my comrades are always there for me flag-non-binary-pride

[-] ExotiqueMatter@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 1 month ago

stalin heart hands You're welcome comrade 😉

[-] jack@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago

Don't tell me that if you could pass as a rock you wouldn't leap at the chance

[-] axont@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

is it like in Kirby where I can metamorph into a rock and roll down inclines

[-] ElChapoDeChapo@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

It works even better if you can fly or float so you can do the classic super smash Kirby move of flying up high before turning into a rock

[-] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

white liberal trans always become fuckin bigoted against nonbinaries, fucking just as bad as the fucking transphobes at that point

and you are a cute and amazing person axont, you pass by existing, like any other trans person

[-] axont@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

i'm really glad everyone is so sweet and considerate. I often don't even feel trans enough or that I'm not doing anything, since most people don't even know I'm nonbinary unless I tell them. I'm not on HRT or anything and don't have discrimination from my immediate family (extended family is a different story). All I've really faced is that coworkers and random people don't understand or believe me, they say I'm just making stuff up. But I know who I am and so do my comrades, so I'm really grateful for that. At most I sometimes feel like I'm "supposed" to present androgynous, but why? I'd rather just be comfortable and present how I feel like. I mostly dress as a mid-90s lesbian, like with skinny jeans and boots lol.

My biggest enby victory so far is a time when I went to jury duty. I'm registered in the county with my gender as "Other" and so the judge had literally no idea how to address me. Kept going back and forth between "Mister" and "Miss" and that kind of ruled.

flag-non-binary-pride bridget-pride

[-] DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 1 month ago

Unrealistic standards for enbies, smh.

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