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Lemmy is a worse platform for women than Reddit was
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this post was submitted on 13 May 2024
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Nobody needs my comment but here it goes. I don't take it personally, it has nothing to do with me. I don't have any issue with people's answers. I know that many people have PTSD and bad experiences and they'd prefer to avoid weird situations like this.
But privately there's a part of me that likes to solve problems and consider everything for myself. I think the question is set up to imply danger by comparing a wild bear to a strange man. If the scenario were different I would expect different results: You are hiking in the desert and you become lost and you have no water. After several days you see a man who offers you water and directions. Do you choose to turn away and continue into the desert or do you accept the man's offer to help provide water and directions to safety?
I have had traumatic experiences with people and one day I realized that I was negatively effected by them and I chose to start practicing Jiu-Jitsu where you need to be in close contact with people as you struggle to gain advantage and win points. I no longer feel the same fear and apprehension about being close to people like I did before.
If people feel a certain way I just wish them healing.
Yeah I really think you hit the nail on the head my biggest problem is that the question is worded and staged to make half the population look comparable not to mention how we already have tick tockers and Twitter phycos that are simply bigoted towards men so it's not entirely uncommon for people to just shit on men online and try to silence talk about men's issues because men's issues just aren't valuable in any way apparently I'm honestly tired of seeing this crap as a man and having so many people comparing people like me to a wild animal that doesn't even kill you before eating you alive and having everyone universally prefer to be with the wild animal is just rubbing salt in the wound
That actually is what happens when you get lost for a long time. It's called "Rescuer Syndrome"
one of the ways that i interpreted it was that you were quite literally teleported into the woods at random, either ending up with a bear, or a man. Because that was one of the only ways it would make any conceptual sense. Idk about you guys, but i wouldnt walk my ass into the woods with someone i'd be worried about causing me harm.
Finally, an honest answer