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submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by Raebxeh@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

I’ve run across cis women making comments like this way too many times for it to not be A Thing. Usually it’s a reason given for them not being a lesbian. Something like, “I love boobs but vaginas are gross”. I’ve also seen it as a reason to not date trans men, but I feel like there’s something going on beyond standard genital preference discourse and the transphobia attached to that. Can someone explain this or am I just being weird?

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[-] Great_Leader_Is_Dead@hexbear.net 5 points 8 months ago

So, I, a cis, mostly het dude, have mostly dated women who were, at the very least a tad bi-curious, most were straight up bisexual. This wasn't intentional on my part it just a weird coincidence.

I did date one woman who was pretty adamant she was 100% straight, not out of homophobia or anything she just said she has never been attracted to other women before. At least according to her she found the concept of Cunnilingus really off putting, she didn't even really like receiving it much and said she didn't get how I liked doing it. Mind you this woman sucked dick like mother fucker.

Idk man some people are weird.

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