thats fair but i do genuinely think the things i'm saying, i'm not just starting shit for no reason. i would rather have arguments earlier and get out what i want to say than not say it for ages and let things fester and grow until i can't say it anymore. worst case scenario then someone can change my mind, or have their mind changed themselves. thats just my feelings on it though. i feel like conflict is a regular part of any website or space and if that makes people uncomfortable than im doing conflict wrong

Edit: Thank you though, I'll try to pull it back a little