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what is a skill you wish you had, and why?
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this post was submitted on 13 Dec 2023
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Learning to say no. Many times or not to say all my life I have always tried to get along with everyone, and I always say "Yes" to everything, committing myself to things I really don't want just because I don't know how to say no.
+1 on this. it look easy from outsider perspective until you are in that shoe and feel how much courage/skill it need to say no.
People pleaser, hey?