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Wolverine really does look like two Batmen kissing
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For teenagers maybe. Most adults can regulate their emotions enough to handle it. I mean, if you watch movies with your mother on a regular basis just laugh akwardly over all the scenes she doesn't want you to see and that's it. With anyone else, why does it bother you if they're watching with a smirk? It's not like people break out into orgies watching a small sex scene.
I think what's happening with people getting overly irritated with sex scenes in movies is, in last consequence, the habit of puritan self-censorship. "Oh, we shouldn't watch that and be aroused by it, that's so indicent. I will be embarrassed if someone catches me doing such a shameful thing."
Once you accept how normal and beautiful human sexuality is, sex scenes become just that - normal. A realistic part of the stories we like to be told.
I have to disagree here. Everyone is not the same and many people are not comfortable watching porns with other people, or even alone by themselves (e.g. abuse victims, etc). My point is there should be an option to avoid watching those scenes, which is increasingly not the case here because new shows includes them as if there is a "has borderline porn sex scenes" checkbox that must be ticked off in Netflix production department before new shows got greenlighted. Trying to not watching shows with those scenes means not watching most recently produced shows at all.
It's impossible to avoid every possible trauma trigger when making a movie. The fact that some people might seriously be unable to watch sex scenes shouldn't mean we cannot make them at all. If sex is an absolute red flag for you in movies, watch PG-13.
Other example: My mom doesn't like violence in movies. (Doesn't mind sex scenes btw.) And that just means she can't (and doesn't want to) watch most recently produced shows. And that's just how it is.
Obviously there's a market for movies with sex scenes in them, or Hollywood wouldn't make them. You will just have to live with the fact that your in the minority here.