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this post was submitted on 13 Nov 2023
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If Band Maid can fill a venue with 40 to 50 year old dudes banging their heads to a group of girls in maid outfits playing rock and roll, you should be fine at a Steve Aioki concert. Just don't act like an actual creep and no one will care.
Never have I heard a more naive statement.
The EDM scene is usually pretty inclusive. If you go there as an older man and just enjoy yourself and dance you'll be fine.
If you leer at women and get handsy you'll have an issue.
Go to better concerts then. I'm a regular concert go-er and at the shows I go to, most people just keep to themselves and concentrate on the show. If you're not acting like a creep and not bothering anyone, nobody will care if you're a 50 year old attending an EDM concert. If people think you're a creep at every concert you attend, then maybe it's a "you" problem.