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[-] usa_suxxx@hexbear.net 33 points 10 months ago

There's not enough ML to try to exclusively date in that pool without being creepy. If they are kind and with a good heart, sure why not. A single person can't be everything to me.

[-] TheUltimateCommunist@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 10 months ago

How does trying to exclusively date a ML makes one creepy?

[-] LesbianLiberty@hexbear.net 30 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

That'd imply you're only really looking while you're in ML spaces which are uh, notably not for that. Professionalism and all. It's not a social club (although y'all should be friends and can rely on each other), it's a revolutionary space. That kind of seeking for others can create needless drama and interpersonal dynamics

[-] TheUltimateCommunist@lemmygrad.ml 15 points 10 months ago

Ohhhh, I didn’t think of that 🤣

[-] TheUltimateCommunist@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 10 months ago

But you could also just add it in your dating profile, and that way is not creepy 🤷🏽‍♂️

[-] danisth@hexbear.net 5 points 10 months ago

Yeah I think a more pertinent question is how early into dating are you open with your ML beliefs. Hiding your power level to woo a lib sounds like a recipe for disaster, but since most people aren’t all that conscious of their political beliefs, a “lib” who isn’t scared of dating a full commie is probably worth hanging on to.

[-] Findom_DeLuise@hexbear.net 19 points 10 months ago
[-] kristina@hexbear.net 14 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

If he only likes you for your immortal science, he must be eradicated

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