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Out of curiosity, do you believe that the "waffle hater" concept implies that all forms of analogy are flawed and not to be used? I think you're confusing the waffle hater thing for "I don't understand how analogies work". Or are a troll. My troll radar is terrible.
I'm engaging earnestly / not trolling. You can disagree with me but I'm not just stating random BS.
They took my statement about distrusting governments and concluded I have a bad relationship with trust in personal relationships. But those are fundamentally different things.
Even if I trusted every individual in a group, that doesn't necessarily mean I should trust the group behavior. One easy example is the Tragedy of the Commons but there are better examples if you spend more time on it. I trust farmers to care for their land and try to grow the best crops with the resources as their disposal; I do not trust them to collectively reduce water consumption for the health of the ecosystem. Etc. Trusting group behavior is fundamentally different from trusting individuals. They didn't make a metaphor I disagreed with they just took my statement A and made a totally unrelated conclusion about B. Hence waffle vs pancake.
I could make a stronger argument centered on distrust of government but the above serves to defend the waffle refutation specifically.
Right. But you can see the implied logical step right?
I also distrust the government as a starting default. But as soon as I have more specific information about specific members of that group, I change my trust level to reflect the more specific data I now have rather than falling back to my default assumptions inherited from the group.
Let's use your analogy. If one farmer did use water responsibly, would you not encourage, and set them up as a model example of The Good Farmer? Or would you scoff and say "give them time. All farmers are selfish in the end"?