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[โ€“] Malica@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Definitely don't do that, at least not until you're over it and that will take at least 6 months imo. Take space to heal, you can do this!

[โ€“] for_some_delta@beehaw.org 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yes.

Be done. Take time to heal. The memories will never go away and are part of your story. The next phase is building new memories absent of her.

My experience is any form of, "Let's just be friends", is a death knell. Mourn how you need. Time does heal wounds. Then move on.