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[–] happy_wheels@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 1 week ago (2 children)

OVER TEXT?!? Excuse-moi but like what the fricklesnacks. That's so rude. The sheer audacity!

Okay so. You're gonna be OK. Shit's gonna suck for a bit but this will pass. I'm cheering for you in my corner girlie. You will find someone who treats you for the queen that you are!

[–] WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't believe in love anymore. I never want to get involved with another woman ever again.

[–] IntroSkeptic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Girlie, I've been there pretty recently myself. Had a very long time recovering, a PTSD diagnosis... The works... And I can say it gets better. I believed I would never feel love again.

It took me a full year to be able to feel love again at all, and I honestly think I got lucky. Did a lot of reading and soul-searching.

This community helped me quite a bit. I'm sure it'll be there for you too. Hell, if you've got Matrix and would like to chat, I'm always down for more friends.

Take care girl - you'll bewitch someone again yet.

[–] WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] IntroSkeptic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 week ago

A decentralized chat platform. blahaj.zone has a server too that I believe is linked on the Lemmy homepage.

https://matrix.org/

[–] anothercatgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Wish there was another way. I had a breakup recently and I tried so many ways to find a timeslot to explain it with SO but she was completely not available for several weeks, so the only channel left was texting.

[–] WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

She broke up with me over text while I was clocking in to my overnight shift. I don't really have a life outside of work and her/her family