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How to even find a relationship (lemmy.zip)

submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by choihanna@lemmy.zip to c/asexual@lemmy.world

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I have strong feelings of disgust and passive agressivness every time a man wants to have sexual advances with me.

It makes me want to crush a glass against their skull, genuinely. I don't do it obvi but I have the intrusive thoughts to physically hurt them every time they start to get sexual even if we're trying to date.

It also makes me lose any sexual attraction. I know you're going to say that I should get with an asexual guy. They're very little around and the few I met still had sexual needs somehow which made me immediately leave and block them.

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[–] dingus@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I don't think it's wrong to have friendships at all. Your question was about romantic relationships, though, and thus the above person replied in terms of that.

[–] choihanna@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

They specified that I shouldn't be looking for friendships as well, not just relationships