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Is it just me or i feel life is getting more difficult these days? (lemmy.zip)

submitted 1 day ago by shojivr@lemmy.zip to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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i am middle aged man, i experienced life since before even computer and smartphone is a thing like today.

back then, i feel that life is much easier, what i mean easier is more simple life, less competition, less stress, fresh environment, and more happiness despite lack of technology.

but right now, everything is just too complicated despite of power of tech, internet, smartphone, and AI helps, i feel that life is much harder right now, what i mean is like competition is everywhere, stressful everyday, crowded city, and i easily depressed these days.

is it just me or everyone else can relate to what happens right now?

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[–] Drewfro66@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I think a lot of it comes down to paperwork burden. It used to be if you were entitled to something there was an office you could sit down in and they had a responsibility to get you want you needed before you left. Now, they send you home with a link to a webpage that doesn't work and a million online forms that time out that you have to fill in perfectly or they get auto-rejected.

I'm dealing with this with a work friend who's trying to apply for medical leave with hostile management. If you can't count on your immediate boss getting you the paperwork you need in a timely manner without throwing a fit because you're "trying to get out of work", it just becomes a million times harder to live a normal life. It used to be that there was a chair somewhere you sat in and could reasonably expect your problems to be solved by the time you stood up again.

[–] I_Voxgaard@hexbear.net 4 points 19 hours ago

Yes the cult of individualism has led to everything that isn't profitable being "self-service"