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[–] teslekova@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If I'm hard-wired for greed and self-preservation, why do I let people go ahead of me in traffic? Why do I give money to beggars? Why do I vote for people who will raise taxes on me?

And why do so many other people do these things? If they are hardwired for greed and self preservation? Are they not human?

[–] HumanOnEarth@lemmy.ca -2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Our intelligence allows us to override our base instincts.

The hardware is self preservation and greed. You raise a human in the wild with no social connection what will you get? A cooperative person? Lol. No.

So many of you are so confident in your assertion that humans are cooperative by nature. That is laughable. We cooperate because we are smart enough (some of us) to figure out that cooperation is the best path forward. Take all the external factors out, introduce some danger and you'll see just how cooperative we are......

[–] teslekova@sh.itjust.works 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I disagree with your entire assertion, because there have been plenty of studies done that do not support it.

Humans are a social species by nature. We help each other on an instinctual level. We evolved that way, because it happened to be more effective for survival.

The people who behave in the way you describe, helping others only when it benefits them, are called sociopaths. They are unusual, and not the majority. Indeed, one of the ways in which they exploit us for their own gain is that normal humans feel good when they help someone.

Perhaps you do not feel this. Perhaps you have a bit of sociopathy. This does not necessarily condemn you, btw, most sociopaths do not become monsters, due to the benefits of cooperation that you describe.

I simply mention it because it may explain why you believe something which is inaccurate.

[–] HumanOnEarth@lemmy.ca 2 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

Lol.....man oh man that's quite the passive aggressive "you might be wrong cause you're fucked up"

You do realize that "feeling good" being altruistic is a selfish reason to do it. That is the benefit. Feeling good is a reward. You are literally describing doing something in order to get a positive reward which you then described as sociopathic. Just because the reward is "feeling good" doesn't make it any different. Are you a sociopath?

Obviously humans are a social species. The social part is only as functional as the social circle around it. You put a bunch of total strangers in an urgent life or death situation, do you really believe there will be any altrusim? Really? Come on now.......

We can absolutely be altruistic. The context is everything. What you would do with total strangers, high stakes and complete anonymity is what I'm talking about. Anything besides that and you have social factors influencing the picture, even if it's just about feeling good.

Edit: clarity

[–] teslekova@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago

If you exclude the essential social nature of a human from your scenario, and somehow anonymise them... Where exactly does this apply? I have been in a survival situation with strangers. We all just worked together to do the right thing, and make sure everyone was safe.

If your proposed essential human selfishness is so limited that it means they mostly do the right thing...